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How long did it take you to be over your ex spouse?

I'm doing everything and anything I can to not miss him. Its been 2 months. And considering all the abuse he put me through...it isnt exactly the hardest thing but it is still difficult. 馃し
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KindSoul2526-30, F
[@828541,KindSoul25] yes!
quitwhendone46-50, M
[@828541,KindSoul25] You are wise beyond your years.
[@828541,KindSoul25] This!
quitwhendone46-50, M
You know what you need?

Some new dick!
HatterM46-50, M
I think year to 18 months easily if it was a genuine long-term relationship.
[@1044765,htreaty] depends on the spouse.
About a day.
Attachment is hard to overcone, even to messed up people sometimes
[@596681,TheBlackPowerRanger] can be very. Yes. Thank you for acknowledging.
My average time is 12 months
quitwhendone46-50, M
I hope you cum across a good one that splits you open and makes you lose your mind.
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For a toxic relationship it can take years, but that doesn't mean that you'll feel bad for years. You can close those gaps in your life in a matter of months. It's just the residual bad dreams and occasional slumps that take longer to fully get over.
That familiarity is hard to let go of. It took me a while. But it happens. Eventually. 馃馃馃馃馃
bearinthehalfwayhouse22-25, M
Well I mean... We left on somewhat bad terms so eh... About a week I'd say........ Only thing I miss is her coochie.... She good at riding BUT IIIIIIIIIIIII!! Digress. 鈹敶鈹敶鈹も⑨触 鈥⑹/
Sibo19136-40, M
2-3 to start not giving a shit. 6 months total
I don't have an ex spouse, just an ex.. "whatever he was". It's been a couple of years and I'm still not completely there.
Time changes everything
Well...you got used to him. So now you have to remove all of that from your "typical", even the ok & good parts.

It was a significant relationship. You don't have to be over it on a fixed schedule. And some parts...SOME parts...well, you might come to cherish them forever, if there were some bits of real love there. 馃槉
[@682246,lulaluboo] Awwww...it's ok. It's part of the complexity of love and real relationships. You are just feeling all the bits...you will be fine. 馃槉

But you might need these:

and maybe one of these
馃惗馃悤 or these 馃惐馃悎

but have a nice hot bath 馃泙 a hot drink 馃嵉 some chocolate 馃崼
and have a good sleep 馃洀馃寷

and then wake up tomorrow with a new day & a fresh attitude 馃尀
[@733785,SomeMichGuy] aww! Yes I need like all those things! Thanky 馃馃馃
[@682246,lulaluboo] Well, then please use them as you will.

Sorry he was angry, cruel, & violent...with that, you might want to read up on the Stockholm syndrome... 馃槪
Blackbeauty36-40, F
I fully understand
Blackbeauty36-40, F
[@1106686,Blackbeauty] I should not want my ex but I can't help but miss him.
It will always affect if you truly loved them.
[@422820,Aliveshock] Precisely. Unless it was just some passing fancy or infatuation.

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