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I attract way too many people

An older man, this middle-aged guy that annoyed me, and even a married woman were hitting on me the other day at a party. The only problem is they're all my neighbours. The older man and I have a weird connection, but I think it would look distasteful to be attracted to him. I'm not sure how to deal with all of this attraction, and this is a common theme in my life, lol. I suppose it's a bit dumb of me to even be bothered by it. Apparently, I should just be grateful and take advantage of it. That's what the person I'm with is telling me. I should use it as leverage or for power. I'm not like that though and can't even imagine doing that. Such strange times.

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Streamofconsciousness · 31-35, T

Wow, this got a lot of responses! I appreciate everyone's answers. We've been hanging out with these neighbours quite a lot lately, so it's hard to say how superficial the whole thing is.

It's probably best for me to just assume it's a shallow intrigue rather than anything to do with who I am as a person. I don't think I'm capable of taking advantage of a situation, nor would I want to.

It was strange to me that my guy was suggesting that's what I should do. Then again, it's one of the many reasons we're kind of parting ways. He says a lot of things I find odd or controlling, and this is one of them.

Anyway, thank you all for the insightful responses!