I attract way too many people

An older man, this middle-aged guy that annoyed me, and even a married woman were hitting on me the other day at a party. The only problem is they're all my neighbours. The older man and I have a weird connection, but I think it would look distasteful to be attracted to him. I'm not sure how to deal with all of this attraction, and this is a common theme in my life, lol. I suppose it's a bit dumb of me to even be bothered by it. Apparently, I should just be grateful and take advantage of it. That's what the person I'm with is telling me. I should use it as leverage or for power. I'm not like that though and can't even imagine doing that. Such strange times.