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I attract way too many people

An older man, this middle-aged guy that annoyed me, and even a married woman were hitting on me the other day at a party. The only problem is they're all my neighbours. The older man and I have a weird connection, but I think it would look distasteful to be attracted to him. I'm not sure how to deal with all of this attraction, and this is a common theme in my life, lol. I suppose it's a bit dumb of me to even be bothered by it. Apparently, I should just be grateful and take advantage of it. That's what the person I'm with is telling me. I should use it as leverage or for power. I'm not like that though and can't even imagine doing that. Such strange times.

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Bonnie · 41-45, F

Why do you think they are attracted to you?

Streamofconsciousness · 31-35, T

@Bonnie Apparently, it's because I'm insanely gorgeous, intelligent, and talented. Even the married woman was openly saying this when I mentioned the other men hitting on me. She then took that as an opportunity to hit on me. My current partner kept telling me that many people are interested in me and I don't even notice, but that it makes him jealous. I didn't believe him, but I received some telling "evidence" from one of those people the other day, so it's got me thinking about it. I didn't wear anything provocative or anything, and I don't even believe I had any makeup on, so it's not like I'm trying to attract all of these people. I've got to be doing something, though?