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Do you ever convince yourself no one likes you?

even though you know that isn’t a realistic thought but then you try to reach out and get completely ignored, even by a counselor, and so now you know it has to be true, and you want to curl up into oblivion?

No? Just me?
sunnydaze · F
I used to do that a lot.
I got smarter.
Everyone goes through periods of feeling like this, and, frankly, we often do not match our reactions to the facts, because we filter them through our senses & how we view the world: we take things more personally or less personally than they are meant; we see hints/meanings where there are none, and miss hints/meanings when they *were* there; etc., etc., etc.

Welcome to humanity! 😊
Eclipsed · M
Don't panic.. plan your revenge 😈
Coppercoil · M
Terrible experience. I feel like I'm a ghost. I'm reaching out to people in my head and my heart but no one knows, no one can see it, and no one is reaching back for me.
Coppercoil · M
@itsok want to be friends so we can be two ghosts.. maybe if we are both ghosts we'll be able to see one another.
itsok · 31-35, F
@Coppercoil let’s be ghosts together
Coppercoil · M
@itsok thank you. I feel like the little match girl.. a fleeting moment of hope in a relentlessly cold world.

Ksmile14 · F
Happens a lot. 🤷‍♀️
I think you're sweet @Ksmile14
acpguy · C
No. I usually think the opposite and if I know they don't like me it is because I am honest and so they are not worthy of me giving them another thought.
No I deal with the same problem. My counselor is worthless & my MH dr is basically the same as a drug dealer.
Disposal · 36-40, M
All the time.
To the point I almost reach suicidal state and that takes so much willpower to settle down
WSEIII · 51-55, M
I may not have any close friends to hang around with but people like me.
SW-User
I can feel very insecure and shy and Rhen I think that people don’t like me.
SW-User
I've stopped reaching out, never used a counsellor though.
I do feel that way many tImes 🤗❤️
RannochMan · 61-69, M
Yes. When I'm depressed.
RannochMan · 61-69, M
@RannochMan I am going through a bad spell now, so I really do feel that way.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
I've felt that way before.
SW-User
Yes, every time 🤗
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No, it's not just you.
SW-User
SW-User
I don’t socialize...I am ok with my own company..
It’s taken a while for me to process that however.
I've OFTEN though no one likes me.
It doesn't happen as much anymore, but I still sometimes feel that way.
Yes I always have that fear and doubt in my mind
SW-User
I felt that way for a while, before I met my last counsellor
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