I Have a Question

what do you do when youre going to this church and your neighbor is getting chummy with my neighbor and im afraid hes trying to get her to go but shes very abusive so i cant be around her, she will scream at me, call the police on me twice for slamming doors i never slammed, i cant be around her, the other day he had this bible study i was going to do with him and did it with her instead, he knows i want nothing to do with me, and yes, its open when all the other ones are closed, normally i wouldnt care but because of her abuse i just dont want to be around her, bad enough im stuck next door to her, she was supposed to be kicked out but thanks to corona im stuck with her, i dont want her in the car when i go to church or even in church itself, i know i shouldnt feel that way but she is very abusive, so i need to quit going if she starts going? i know people can change but i just dont trust her, any suggestions? im keeping distance from her cause of all her abuse.

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Carissimi · 70-79, F

You should be staying at home, not going to church. This is very irresponsible behavior.

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HorrorshowHijabi · F

@pearllederman I think you're missing the concept of non symptomatic carrier.

pearllederman · 61-69, F

@HorrorshowHijabi i never get sick

jim44444 · 70-79, M

@pearllederman you do not have to get sick to be a carrier. Do you recall the case of Typhoid Mary? She did not get sick but infected many.

HorrorshowHijabi · F

Bad situation all around. Have you talked with him to explain things? To be honest it's not a good idea to be in groups right now anyways with the sickness going on still. Maybe your church has a zoom meeting or livestream instead so you can join in without dealing with potential drama?

pearllederman · 61-69, F

@HorrorshowHijabi i never got sick from going and if people are sick hes asked them not to go, id rather be in person or not go and yes ive talked to him about it

HorrorshowHijabi · F

@pearllederman Covid doesn't show right away thougg. By the time someone has symptoms they've already passed it on. I really wouldn't risk someone's health for a hike study you can do later or ask someone for notes of.