I Have a Question

In a relationship..If you were deeply hurt by a certain action, and you told your partner, simply expecting their understanding, does that mean you’re abusing, imposing, or trying to be possessive?

Why do some fail to listen and see into someone’s heart. Could they be self centered?

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SW-User

No, it means you are human and you want to express your feelings.

Could be, some of the ladies want you to fawn all over them and be supportive , but they just scoff at their guys when they are hurting...of course it works the other way around,too.

NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F

Sometimes its all in how you delivered the message. Other time the person receiving has been hurt by you and maybe has resentment to issues they havent talked about.

Mahjack · 31-35, M

@NeuroticByNature Perhaps. But what if you told them and asked them in a gentle or in a loving way to avoid the action, and yet they kept doing it and called you unnecessary things?

Is it past experiences or just inconsiderate?

NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F

@Mahjack its hard to say really. It really depends on the action in question. If it was something that happened intimately between the two then a partner should try to be respectful of the others wishes.

Raffie · 61-69, F

No, if you were hurt by your partner, if there was true love, your partner would listen deeply to your concerns and make it right. Yes, they could be focused on themselves first and foremost.

Madelenie · 26-30, F

No, you just want your partner to know what caused you upset, it's a communication for you both to discuss about what may improve the relationship from both sides.

And no, they could be just annoyed and don't understand the point at the moment, it could be miscommunication by how is the message delivered and received.

Lostinconfusion · 22-25, F

No, and some people just refuse to see the wrong in themselves

SW-User

Um no it's just communication

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