I recently started living in England. [I Love The Tv Show Arrow]

I would really love to find a girlfriend, but I noticed that people here don't just chat up each other unless they know each other. Makes it difficult to know anyone. My neighbours totally ignore me. How can I get myself a girlfriend? I tried one dating site, but almost all the women there had kids. I'm not a big fan of kids, TBH. What can I do. I'm a bit lonely.

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4meAndyou · F

The way I understand it, you need to meet the locals at your Local...meaning at your local Pub. If the area where you are living is too small, you need to go to the local in or near a larger town.

Be friendly, meet the men first, and let everyone know you are a good guy. THEN you will know people, and THEN you can chat up their friends.

AFreeThinker81

Dont try to see women as j ust gf material or chased as such, rather, just see women as human like you. Befriend them and just talk to them. Be you. Itll hapoen 🙂

Dave77 · 36-40, M

@AFreeThinker81 good answer. I like it!!!

TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M

Be here. You won't need a gf.

Dave77 · 36-40, M

@TheOrionbeltseeker lol. Good one

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

Things are slowly returning to some sort of normal now.

Do a search for social clubs and things you have an interest in.
See if anything pops up that you might want to get involved in.
I mean if you start going to certain places (pubs; clubs; societies; theatres; sports clubs etc) chances are you’ll meet people with the same interests as yours !

Your local Library is often a good source of local information

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