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I Am Scared

Its embarrassing but I had always thought to myself, how can someone connect and fall for someone online? It seemed impossible. Yet, the last 16 months I've been speaking to one guy and nobody else. I feel a connection unlike any other, yet we still haven't met and he's too insecure and suffers with bad anxiety...it's very hard, I've been trying to persuade him since November last year to meet me and even figured out and arranged the best routes and places in which to meet one another... I'm constantly scared and anxious, I've fallen deep ...online, I'm someone that gets bored of people quickly, I have a weird personality and dry sense of humour, yet the guy I'm talking to I still speak to everyday about fun stuff. I have only been in one relationship which ended up being the worst year of my life. I just want to meet this guy I'm talking to so bad, I'm scared that maybe he just doesn't feel the same despite telling me he does everyday... Yet he still doesn't seem to be meeting me for a date etc, my head's completely baffled :(

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PoetryNEmotion · F

Be very careful, girl. You have invested deeply in this guy who obviously has flaws. He doesn't want to meet you. You cannot force him. Online love is extremely rare. I mean it rarely works out. You are setting yourself up for heartbreak. Sure you want to travel on that unpaved road?

St0ut · 51-55, M

@PoetryNEmotion the highs and the lows.

Plus we all have are flaws. I know I have mine

PoetryNEmotion · F

@St0ut This young man has obvious flaws. He is honest about it. Of course, each of us has flaws. That relationship is friends only. It is obvious. True love brings mainly highs. If you want to use that expression. True love doesn't make you feel low. It is something that inspires, that motivates, that transforms positively. She shouldn't follow what will doom her.

SW-User

Be careful. :( A guy that really wants to see you see will not only call you and ask you out...he will go all the way to you and pick you up.
Don't believer everything they say. Sometimes I'm shy or scared translates to Im hiding my wife .

St0ut · 51-55, M

How far apart are you ? You need to get more of a commitment from him before you invest further.

Vallesia · 26-30, F

@St0ut around 200 miles, but I've explained and nfoujr the best places and cheapest in between both of us and nothing seems to have happened, my head's constantly tormenting itself and I'm starting to feel empty again, like I believe he is the one but then if he fucks off I'll never find anyone on my level again. I'm dumb I know

St0ut · 51-55, M

@Vallesia it just feels that way. TBH. If you have offered to reach out andnhe is not biting. You need to let this one go.

DarlingSelah ·

Youre putting too much energy into someone who doesnt want to see you.

Vallesia · 26-30, F

@DarlingSelah he always says how much he wants to meet me though and that he feels the same way, then he goes on about how gross and disgusting he is and that my heart will change if we meet

PoetryNEmotion · F

@Vallesia Hear his words. He has such no self-esteem. He must develop it himself. You cannot gift it to him.

SW-User

Good luck I hope it works out you seem so lovely 💗💗💗

AngelKrish · 26-30, M

I know how it feels too!

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