I Am Tired Of All The Slut-Shaming

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@SW-User 🤗 You tell 'em, girl!

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@Lostpoet

This isn't me engaging in conversation as this is already old and I'm rarely ever here but...I was so angry today, you know these atrocious days? Anyway, here I am reading this part:

[quote]"it's your job to not give him any hints of coupling."[/quote]

I laughed so freaking hard I could have peed myself! And then:

[quote]"Do you think it's moral to dangle candy in front of children?"[/quote]

Fantastic! Love it! Thanks for the laughs. I'm serious and not being ironic. I'm genuinely thankful. I laughed so hard and it felt very good! I was having one of those days.

My 2 cents (being that this topic kinda applies to me...🥵)

Everybody should simply own up to what they do. Not complicated? Do what you want, have fun but take responsibility?

The devil made me do it? Or in this case, "[b]the boobies made me do it[/b]?" Really? Can you hear me laughing some more?

That legitimizes pretty much half the crime out there. From rape to shoplifting. "I just couldn't help myself!"

[quote]"Some guys can be really weak and a moment can mess up there whole lives."[/quote]

Yep. And their weakness isn't our problem. It's called self-control. Plus, porn, plus, masturbation...or meditation? Whatever works? I've got some secret news for you but promise not to tell anyone? Okay? Here goes: [c=#666666]Being a non-committal slut in open relationships works very well.[/c] Don't tell anyone!

[quote]"If a guy thought it was ok to sleep with my wife then that guy is obviously going to find himself in a very dangerous situation with me"[/quote]

You would beat some guy over your wife's actions? In this case, it's her weakness? Mr.Guy can't sleep with your wife unless she wants him to...her responsibility.

Our weaknesses are our own to struggle with and overcome. You can't scapegoat your weaknesses onto others. (Perhaps we should create public jerk-off areas so guys can relieve the built-up pressure? I'm only half-kidding. It's easier for us to quietly cross our legs and take care of ourselves. No ones notices. I get it, it's harder (oops) for you guys. If only people weren't such goofy prudes!)

If the relationship was solid the cheating partner would not be looking outside to begin with. Problems were already there.

And either way, relationships are based on our emotions, our feelings for one another. If they truly feel love for the other and come from a place of compassion, an affair (physical) should not break a relationship. I find it difficulty to claim to love someone and not allow them any "mistakes". Trials and tribulations are part of life and also relationships.

Now, I'm writing way to much...and it's all YOUR FAULT! See what YOU made my little weak-minded self do? I take no responsibility whatsoever for having had to write ANY of this! None whatsoever! This-this-this RANT of mine? It's your fault! Your post provoked me! You 🐷! And I hope you suffer and BLEED for it, okay?😘

@Vampstress First off this is very well thought of and articulated so I give you credit for that and I'm sorry for being some cave man pig with the inability to keep it in his own pants and not hurt someone that I love.

Second off I feel like you are wrong and I bet you've caused more than a few heart breaks and just because you feel like it's exceptable to do what ever you want and fuck the consequences that's on you but there is one thing I've learned in life is that other people can royally in just one second destroy another person life.

I'm agnostic so I don't believe there is some higher power to dole out punishments for such actions but I think if given a choice you would have sacrificed all of your other sexual encounters for one love of your life but I could be wrong. And I believe everyone has the right to express themselves freely and without judgement so please don't take my thoughts as a direct judgement for how you choose to live.

There's a character in John Steinbeck's East of Eden Cathrine. She reminds me of you.

@Lostpoet About John Steinbeck's East of Eden Cathrine...Her wiki states that:

[quote]Beneath her charming, attractive facade, she is an evil woman who manipulates and destroys people for her own amusement and profit. Steinbeck characterizes her as a "psychic monster" with a "malformed soul"

In 1982, Jane Seymour received a Best Actress Golden Globe award for her portrayal of Cathy Ames in the ABC mini-series adaptation of East of Eden. In an interview with Oprah Winfrey, Seymour commented that “there is nothing greater than playing evil incarnate.[/quote]

Ouch!

But then again...how often do you get the chance to have a little conversation with "evil incarnate"?😁

@Vampstress 🙃