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I Want to Tell You About My Day

Was just actually going to call him ..after so many years, googled his number...and all of a sudden, all the shit he posted about me all over internet ,surfaced. Wow. People never change. Asshole in 2013 still asshole in 2018===asshole for life. Hard to believe and easy to predict, what would have happened to me if we wound up together. Still don't understand what was the point of this experience in my life 🤔🤔 and why did I think at one point he was the love of my life and soulmate. WHY and FOR WHAT all of that craziness and all those feelings. I don't see the point ten years later...God??? I really don't ?? Or devil..🤔

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Livingwell · 61-69, M

Sweetie...it was meant to teach you a valuable lesson. You dodged the perverbial bullet in life. Imagine where you would be now.

If I may give some advice...your past is exactly that. One can NEVER go back. It would be not what you expected because everything moves on.

The past is a reference, to learn from. Some of us, including me, have tried to continue living that past in feelings, pain, fear, etc. Let it go!

The future is before you. The past provided the necessary tools to create it. Go out, forget the past, and make your future. You only have so long to do so and “what if’s” are f****d up. Today is the first day of your future. 🤗

MsFugger · F

@Livingwell 😘

Bluewind · M

It's hard when you still miss someone, I would never contact an ex, I'm not findable by any of them because i don't see the point

Ladyryan · 51-55, F

Now you’re totally free from self torture, The “craziness” is over, and finally move on forever. Reality has its own way of teaching us a lesson, it may come sooner or later.

allsfinebime2 · M

Your experience would have to be "How to avoid toxic people?"

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allsfinebime2 · M

@MsFugger No, not stupid at all. And we have all made some kind of mistake in our lives when it comes to others.

MsFugger · F

@allsfinebime2 some kind of mistake is okay, same mistake with different people is what stupid does. Keeping on believing in better human in people have always backfired at me, always. Learning now to distinguish people by their actions only instead of believing in the good just because I wish they were. Thank goodness, I ve already stopped trying to justify others' wrong actions.

allsfinebime2 · M

@MsFugger Yes, it sounds as if you have stopped justifying. And that's a step in the right direction for you. If it smells like poop, then it is poop. Learn the distinction and move on. Albeit you might be disappointed because you like the person or persons. But when it all comes down to it, self preservation should win the day. ☺

Adaydreambeliever · 61-69, F

Sometimes there's no clear message that an experience is able to give us... sometimes it can take many, many years before we have fully processed it...sometimes that never happens... Perhaps all you can do is know that he was, an assole

MsFugger · F

@Adaydreambeliever and maybe, how I wasn't able to tell it in the beginning to save myself so much stress.

ELGONZO · 26-30, M

Wait you can Google someone's number and find out about that person?

MsFugger · F

@ELGONZO ya, a house phone number, by their full name and address

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