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I Want to Tell You About My Day

Was just actually going to call him ..after so many years, googled his number...and all of a sudden, all the shit he posted about me all over internet ,surfaced. Wow. People never change. Asshole in 2013 still asshole in 2018===asshole for life. Hard to believe and easy to predict, what would have happened to me if we wound up together. Still don't understand what was the point of this experience in my life 🤔🤔 and why did I think at one point he was the love of my life and soulmate. WHY and FOR WHAT all of that craziness and all those feelings. I don't see the point ten years later...God??? I really don't ?? Or devil..🤔

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allsfinebime2 · M

Your experience would have to be "How to avoid toxic people?"

MsFugger · F

@allsfinebime2 sigh maybe and unfortunately "how once toxic---always toxic"

allsfinebime2 · M

@MsFugger A tiger never changes it's stripes.

MsFugger · F

@allsfinebime2 ya, I guess

allsfinebime2 · M

@MsFugger I am sorry that he has upset you once again.

MsFugger · F

@allsfinebime2 I just got again reassured that Yes!!! It's true that people never change. Don't be a fool expecting them to.

allsfinebime2 · M

@MsFugger And that's the hell of it all, isn't it? Our self expectations of others.

MsFugger · F

@allsfinebime2 yes lol expectations and ILLUSION that things will get better with a person, couldn't be farther from actual reality-- that it never will, but you just want to believe that it will somehow some time soon..Stupid

allsfinebime2 · M

@MsFugger No, not stupid at all. And we have all made some kind of mistake in our lives when it comes to others.

MsFugger · F

@allsfinebime2 some kind of mistake is okay, same mistake with different people is what stupid does. Keeping on believing in better human in people have always backfired at me, always. Learning now to distinguish people by their actions only instead of believing in the good just because I wish they were. Thank goodness, I ve already stopped trying to justify others' wrong actions.

allsfinebime2 · M

@MsFugger Yes, it sounds as if you have stopped justifying. And that's a step in the right direction for you. If it smells like poop, then it is poop. Learn the distinction and move on. Albeit you might be disappointed because you like the person or persons. But when it all comes down to it, self preservation should win the day. ☺