I Am The Other Woman

There is a lot of reasons people do not just divorce.
I am one of them.
It's not always so simple.

Well true but if people are not happy why suffer.

@missme: Is she happy that you satisfy him more than her? if so, then switch ....so easy to do that than lie

@SoFine: there would be nothing easy about that.

@missme: Well is she happy for you?

@SoFine: she doesn't know about me and you know that. Go away

@missme: You are her friend, then go away from her life. You talk to her with a snake in your mouth, great friend you are, you sneak around her life, take, take. Even if they don't have a great relations, you have no right to be in between them. You don't like that we post, we post to make up for those in your life that you piss on with your bad life choice. Simple, don't cheat and I won't be here on your post. I am the voice of your children, I speak for them, you are a shitty mother to cheat on her friend/husband/father of her children.

@missme: do you think if she knew that your were screwing her husband, she would be your friend?

@SoFine: no. I am absolutely not going to go away .. :) probably kills you that I'm so happy.

@missme: Happy then why do you post about your husband and the situation you are in, you tell you this that you are happy, yet deep down you know the mess you are in. You face each day, with .... will the shit hit the fan today?

@SoFine: I don't post often. But I do because I like to share the same as lots do when things are going good.

I wake up happy every morning I do not wake up worrying about mess at all :)
Things are great

One day that attitude will change. Will you post on that?

I have posted on a little bit of everything since the beginning. Experience project shut down but you would've seen me there. I remember you.
We are almost 5 years in and things are quite happy. No drama, closer than ever. I do not stress right now.
Life isn't always simple. But if I die tomorrow I'll be happy.

@missme: I remember you.

@Solostance: i do you not want to rock anybody's world up. My focus is having this be a secret forever the reason why I want that is because I don't want to hurt anybody I realize the risk is there but there is a risk in everything we do. I'm obviously taking a big one I have obviously thought about it from every angle calculated that risk and decided to take it.
Right now I have no regrets.

I understand your concern but I am not taking this lightly , anything somebody can say to me to try to shake me up won't work because I've already thought about it myself.

He is mine I am his, and I am happy .

I'm not commenting to shake your world up. You would know it if I was.
I have come to realize that there are a lot of people who mistake marriage and throw it's meaning away. The respect, love, lack of tenderness, compassion and honesty was omitted when the I do's were said.
Marriage is a partnership. Marriage is all about sharing and there's no room for being selfish and greedy.
Disagreements and arguments are bound to happen in a relationship.
There will be times when you may dislike your spouse's actions and words but you made the commitment for better or worse. And as quiet as its kept most did not marry for the right reasons. Ulterior motives were the reason some marry...that's why many cheat and divorce IMO.
Go ahead and live your life but don't hurt others.
Grandma had many life rules to live by.. I would like to share one of those rules with you.
" The crimes of your past always comes back to seek justice. Therefore be mindful and careful how you treat folks behind their backs. You never know who may have to come and clean your butt."
Grandma was an ole country girl and may not have had a lot of education but she had what most do not....common sense.