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I Am The Other Woman

She's been away this week, so we spent three of the days together, not physically with each other the entire time , sometimes it was on the phone , texting sometimes we really got to touch.

I always thought overtime things would cool down but now that we are over four years in and it's only intensified .

He told me these last couple years I have opened his mind and he thanked me for it.

We did talk again about being together but it wasn't really real.

Our kids are still so young I just don't know how it would ever work.

she comes back tomorrow morning I will miss him.

Obviously we won't stop talking but when she's gone I never worry about it I contact constantly instead of waiting to hear. I miss him already.

She has been sending me messages saying she doesn't miss home or him at all yet. I miss him after five minutes apart. Sometimes I miss him when we are in the same room.

Sometimes I don't think it's fair.
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It would end the happiness you claim you have. I do not understand how you are happy and if truth comes to light how much of your happiness will hurt others.
I know you are aware of it but I can't understand why you're so proud of inflicting hurt to another individual, well infact a person who trust you....two people who trust you. That's happiness?
updown2020 · 61-69, M
So did I read that right his wife texts you saying "She not miss him or home" If that is the case why do they not divorce?
missme · 36-40, F
@Solostance: i do you not want to rock anybody's world up. My focus is having this be a secret forever the reason why I want that is because I don't want to hurt anybody I realize the risk is there but there is a risk in everything we do. I'm obviously taking a big one I have obviously thought about it from every angle calculated that risk and decided to take it.
Right now I have no regrets.

I understand your concern but I am not taking this lightly , anything somebody can say to me to try to shake me up won't work because I've already thought about it myself.

He is mine I am his, and I am happy .
I'm not commenting to shake your world up. You would know it if I was.
I have come to realize that there are a lot of people who mistake marriage and throw it's meaning away. The respect, love, lack of tenderness, compassion and honesty was omitted when the I do's were said.
Marriage is a partnership. Marriage is all about sharing and there's no room for being selfish and greedy.
Disagreements and arguments are bound to happen in a relationship.
There will be times when you may dislike your spouse's actions and words but you made the commitment for better or worse. And as quiet as its kept most did not marry for the right reasons. Ulterior motives were the reason some marry...that's why many cheat and divorce IMO.
Go ahead and live your life but don't hurt others.
Grandma had many life rules to live by.. I would like to share one of those rules with you.
" The crimes of your past always comes back to seek justice. Therefore be mindful and careful how you treat folks behind their backs. You never know who may have to come and clean your butt."
Grandma was an ole country girl and may not have had a lot of education but she had what most do not....common sense.
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Do you tell her husband all the alleged bad things that she says about him?
missme · 36-40, F
Um no, what good would that do? We barely mention her

 
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