I Am The Other Woman

EP refugee here...I have been the OW for about 4 years now. He was my OM at first and I got divorced a couple years ago. Never been more in love than with my MM. He is my fantasy come true. W has been suspicious from the get go and has confronted me multiple times. Nothing gets in the way. He is loyal and determined and in love. There are many ups and downs. I have tried to end it over and over and have been unable to walk away from him.

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Friendlygirl · 61-69, F

Firstly hes using his family as a shield to hide behind so he wont commit to the other woman..
Secondly why give up his cake and kibbles..
Hes living the life of a typical cheater.. and hes hiding the Affair Partner which they all do..hes showing no respect to her ( not that she deserves it having no morals or boundries where the marriage is concerned) or his wife..
In the mean time this Affair Partner is wasting her years of life when she should be put first in her own relationship.. one day she will wake up too old..
Heres a thought give him an ultimatum..watch him back pedal then.. and choose the wife..if it hasnt happened already seeing this post is nearly a year old!!