I Am The Other Woman

I will have to start a new group on help in getting over an affair. My MM of three years got bad news today. He went with his wife to her doctor appointment. She found out she is worsening. She clung to him and cried. She said to him "You are all I have." So of course, he is reeling with guilt. I told him that I completely understand. He needs to be there for her and take care of her. I never wished any ill will on her as I know she is in pain daily. So we are ending things. I am glad it is the holidays and I will be busy with my kids so that I am not so devastated at losing him.

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ImnotAngela · 26-30, F

Just focus on having fun at the holidays and your kids and maybe taking some alone time when possible. It's all you can really do. We all do make mistakes and it must feel sad to have lost someone you care about. But time will pass and you will feel better.