I found it easier to look in the mirror after I lost the rolls. And I also found it's easier to get around without carrying the extra weight (equivalent of a small child) all day long. Sometimes it's not about how others love you, but how you love yourself. Stepping off the soapbox now...
Beauty and sexuality is so much more than rolls or no rolls. So much of body image is incorrectly tied to physical attributes and should be tied to the whole person.
In my experience it seems that most women have an opinion of themselves that in their mind that is worse than most men see. You tend to judge yourself too harshly.
