I Am a Victim of Emotional Abuse

That’s practically the definition of it.

obviously not. and you asking proves it. also you are only presenting your point of view. I bet there's tons more to it

It depends on how you take it, what it makes you feel like. The frequency and context and all of that.

On its own, the word dumb or being taken for granted is just something that happens a lot.

I think it is a form of abuse. I have recently encountered some texting abuse by a family member. She can go to hell and enjoy her misery of being cut off for good. I recommend you cut the other person off too. And avoid the toxicity.

Yes. You shouldn't have people in your life who make you feel bad about yourself.

No it isn't duh! The only time someone takes you for granted is when you LET them do it and it's pathetic! People call others dumb and that's common. If this is happening to you then you need to stop being a fucking coward and grow thick skin. Look YOU asked not me!