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When meeting someone for the first time, what is an instant turn off?

For me, it is a foul mouth.
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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Bad teeth, bad breath and bad attitude.
Luvbuttz · M
@Keepitsimple Those are the attributes of a badass cowboy from the wild,wild west!
More like One missing tooth,whiskey breath
and a badass attitude!
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Yikes! He’s all sweaty too! That’s a no no! 😆@Luvbuttz
Peaches · F
When they constantly talk about their ex!👎
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
Poor manners of any sort.
@PhilDeep manners are a lost art .😔
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
@OogieBoogie Why though, I wonder? Don't parents and teachers teach them any more?
@PhilDeep no.

There was a time ,,wjen families would sit down to dinner ...amd conversations would take place ....its rare now .

The dinner table was a sacred open space shared over good food and laughs.

Nowdays it's replaced with take aways in front of the tv.

There's a whole generation growing up not knowing How to use cutlery.

Even parenting is now having to be taught in therapy groups.

It's a sad view of the future .
Attitude and/or closed mindedness. Being judgemental
SW-User
Bad attitude. That's the first thing I notice.
summersong · F
Complaining, disinterest, bad hygiene
LaLumieri · 51-55, F
Cigarette smoking is an instant turn off.
SW-User
For me....any sense of arrogance or entitlement.
SW-User
@SW-User please don't think me arrogant but I do believe you're entitled to your opinion. 🤗
SW-User
🤭funny@SW-User🤗
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
The Holier than thou attitude.
Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F
Dead fish handshake
luvnsunshine · 26-30, F
Cold demeanor, makes me think they don’t like me
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@MarmeeMarch sorry hon....you've just self limited yourself to an lonely emotional life from 4o onwards.
Better hope you're rolling in cash by then .
SW-User
The condescending types who take over the conversation in private or in groups. They always have to be the center of attention. Yet if they aren't, they sulk.
meeting someone who is not YOU
PatKirby · M
Same here, instant adiós.
OnlyRhonda · 36-40, F
Boasting and arrogance. Or being late.
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
If she took a ‘portugese shower’ with Red Door, instant turn off
Uh oh ....thars torn it 😁

Well then I better apologise for myself.

I habe a wonderful lexicon at my disposal ...its just swear words are reserved for emphasis.

And I like my expressiveness.

I'm just sorry it's offensice to others.

My perception of offensive has had its bar heightened from experience.

So I lack the gentler view I once had .
chrisCA · M
@OogieBoogie Lol. I am talking about the people, for who, every other word is "eff", "effing", or "effed". I work with some who are like that.
@chrisCA ah...well no...im not that basic.

I like my swear words ... thet are like glitter on a phrase...tjere are times they need to shine a little brighter. 😁
2cool4school · 46-50, F
Rude and self centered people are a huge turn off for me.
SW-User
I don't like they asking me about my sex life in the first meeting. It's off putting
@SW-User lol what kind of men do you meet.
SW-User
@undetermined Idk but several have done that 😖 not everyone though.
@SW-User wow, im feeling terrible for women this generation if men behave like that.
LaLumieri · 51-55, F
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chrisCA · M
@JosephineTheFox A lack of eye contact is one for me, as well as a weak handshake.
SpaceJesus · 41-45
@SpaceJesus tjars a hard one to get past....i can't.
AirForce687 · 36-40, M
Foul mouth as in swearing, or bad breath ??
chrisCA · M
@AirForce687 Swearing
talking to my boobs.
@saragoodtimes it makes me laugh inside ...you watch them , and they aren't even aware.
I've talked in for like three minutes watching a guy watching my tits ....then I deliberately breath deep and say "what's your opinion ?"

The next 60 seconds is usually quite funny to watch 😁
chrisCA · M
@saragoodtimes Maybe your boobs were speaking to them? 😅
SW-User
Dirty clothes
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@RogueLoner I'm not perfect...and I judge all the time...iys terrible 😁

 
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