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When meeting someone for the first time, what is an instant turn off?

For me, it is a foul mouth.
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Keepitsimple · 56-60, F
Bad teeth, bad breath and bad attitude.
Luvbuttz · M
@Keepitsimple Those are the attributes of a badass cowboy from the wild,wild west!
More like One missing tooth,whiskey breath
and a badass attitude!
Keepitsimple · 56-60, F
Yikes! He’s all sweaty too! That’s a no no! 😆@Luvbuttz
SW-User
Poor manners of any sort.
@SW-User manners are a lost art .😔
SW-User
@OogieBoogie Why though, I wonder? Don't parents and teachers teach them any more?
@SW-User no.

There was a time ,,wjen families would sit down to dinner ...amd conversations would take place ....its rare now .

The dinner table was a sacred open space shared over good food and laughs.

Nowdays it's replaced with take aways in front of the tv.

There's a whole generation growing up not knowing How to use cutlery.

Even parenting is now having to be taught in therapy groups.

It's a sad view of the future .
Peaches · F
When they constantly talk about their ex!👎
LaLumieri · 51-55, F
Cigarette smoking is an instant turn off.
Attitude and/or closed mindedness. Being judgemental
SW-User
Bad attitude. That's the first thing I notice.
summersong · F
Complaining, disinterest, bad hygiene
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
The Holier than thou attitude.
SW-User
Dead fish handshake
SW-User
For me....any sense of arrogance or entitlement.
SW-User
@SW-User please don't think me arrogant but I do believe you're entitled to your opinion. 🤗
SW-User
🤭funny@SW-User🤗
Rudeness, self absorption (narcissism), lying and bad hygiene.
2cool4school · 46-50, F
Rude and self centered people are a huge turn off for me.
LaLumieri · 51-55, F
luvnsunshine · 26-30, F
Cold demeanor, makes me think they don’t like me
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@MarmeeMarch sorry hon....you've just self limited yourself to an lonely emotional life from 4o onwards.
Better hope you're rolling in cash by then .
SW-User
The condescending types who take over the conversation in private or in groups. They always have to be the center of attention. Yet if they aren't, they sulk.
SW-User
I don't like they asking me about my sex life in the first meeting. It's off putting
@SW-User lol what kind of men do you meet.
SW-User
@undetermined Idk but several have done that 😖 not everyone though.
@SW-User wow, im feeling terrible for women this generation if men behave like that.
meeting someone who is not YOU
LunarOrbit · 61-69, M
If she took a ‘portugese shower’ with Red Door, instant turn off
PatKirby · M
Same here, instant adiós.
SW-User
Dirty clothes
OnlyRhonda · 41-45, F
Boasting and arrogance. Or being late.
Uh oh ....thars torn it 😁

Well then I better apologise for myself.

I habe a wonderful lexicon at my disposal ...its just swear words are reserved for emphasis.

And I like my expressiveness.

I'm just sorry it's offensice to others.

My perception of offensive has had its bar heightened from experience.

So I lack the gentler view I once had .
chrisCA · M
@OogieBoogie Lol. I am talking about the people, for who, every other word is "eff", "effing", or "effed". I work with some who are like that.
@chrisCA ah...well no...im not that basic.

I like my swear words ... thet are like glitter on a phrase...tjere are times they need to shine a little brighter. 😁
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chrisCA · M
@JosephineTheFox A lack of eye contact is one for me, as well as a weak handshake.
SpaceJesus · 46-50
@SpaceJesus tjars a hard one to get past....i can't.
AirForce687 · 36-40, M
Foul mouth as in swearing, or bad breath ??
chrisCA · M
@AirForce687 Swearing
talking to my boobs.
@saragoodtimes it makes me laugh inside ...you watch them , and they aren't even aware.
I've talked in for like three minutes watching a guy watching my tits ....then I deliberately breath deep and say "what's your opinion ?"

The next 60 seconds is usually quite funny to watch 😁
chrisCA · M
@saragoodtimes Maybe your boobs were speaking to them? 😅
RogueLoner · M
🤷‍♂️ I don't know. I'm not perfect, so I don't judge.
@RogueLoner I'm not perfect...and I judge all the time...iys terrible 😁

 
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