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I Have No Confidence

My girlfriend in her attempt to get me to do something that might boost my confidence:

"Want to wash the car in our bikinis today, give the guys something to look at? 😏"

But if I did that with her, they would only be ogling her. If they were paying any attention to me, it would probably be with them wondering "What's this frickin' albino broad doing in a swimsuit out in the hot Sun?!" My appearance is too pale, sickly and frail-looking thanks to my poor health (and my treatments) to be showing a whole lot of skin anymore. I can't even feel good about wearing crop tops or shorts! What confidence I ever had in my looks is just totally gone. 😞

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SW-User

Sweetie,if you'd see me you'd have all your confidence back no one is whiter than me, I even beat Edward in twilight. Just do it Sweetie, have some fun and don't care about what others think, have fun with your girl 🤗

Carver · 31-35, F

@KindChanny: Your skin color isn't caused by a brain tumor and radiation therapy. But it's not just that, the skin around my eyelids is red and I have cataracts in my right eye. I don't look good at all.

RickR · 41-45, M

@KindChanny: you know, some of us guys actually like girls who are a bit more pale. It's actually a turn-on

SW-User

@Carver: sweetie, you are beautiful because you are yourself, your girlfriend finds you gorgeous, and I'm sure everyone one else too. Don't think too much, just enjoy yourself

RickR · 41-45, M

So true!