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I Have No Confidence

My girlfriend in her attempt to get me to do something that might boost my confidence:

"Want to wash the car in our bikinis today, give the guys something to look at? 😏"

But if I did that with her, they would only be ogling her. If they were paying any attention to me, it would probably be with them wondering "What's this frickin' albino broad doing in a swimsuit out in the hot Sun?!" My appearance is too pale, sickly and frail-looking thanks to my poor health (and my treatments) to be showing a whole lot of skin anymore. I can't even feel good about wearing crop tops or shorts! What confidence I ever had in my looks is just totally gone. 😞
Nat15 · F
I wish you could see yourself the way others see you. Your gf obviously thinks you look amazing. She loves you.

I wish you could see yourself the way I see you even tho I've never met you in person. I think you're a beautiful person, and you should let some of that inner beauty shine outwardly!

You are AWESOME, Carver. <3
SailorMarz · F
Such nice things to say 😭@Nat14:
Nat15 · F
@SailorMarz: Thank yiu. It's easy to say such things when you deeply believe them
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
Oh my gosh girl, you have such an inner beauty that shines so much brighter than any tanned skin ever could. Go put on your bikini and walk out there with your head up, not for them, but for her. 🤗
SW-User
Sweetie,if you'd see me you'd have all your confidence back no one is whiter than me, I even beat Edward in twilight. Just do it Sweetie, have some fun and don't care about what others think, have fun with your girl 🤗
RickR · 41-45, M
@KindChanny: you know, some of us guys actually like girls who are a bit more pale. It's actually a turn-on
SW-User
@Carver: sweetie, you are beautiful because you are yourself, your girlfriend finds you gorgeous, and I'm sure everyone one else too. Don't think too much, just enjoy yourself
RickR · 41-45, M
So true!
SW-User
Mm, Carver I'd be staring at you just as much as I would be looking at your gf. Probably more at you though to be honest. Yeah I remember seeing the pic of your gf, she's hot no doubt. But you're even better C. You are, at least I think you are. She's right, do it :)
Carver · 31-35, F
@hyg346: We'll see but right now, it's leaning more toward not doing it.
SW-User
@Carver: that's cool Carver. Don't do something that will make you uncomfortable. But your girlfriend and I are in perfect agreement here. You're still Alex and she's beautiful.
SailorMarz · F
I sort of never feel good about my body either...& you guys are wild lol giving men a show XD
Carver · 31-35, F
@SailorMarz: It's usually her idea. She's a bit of an adventurous tease like that.
SailorMarz · F
@Carver: is that one of the things you love about her?
Carver · 31-35, F
@SailorMarz: Absolutely. Her confidence is one of the most attractive things about her.
Benjr134 · M
Hey as someone with a gf who is sick you need to gain confidence with yourself before trying to work it with others.
Carver · 31-35, F
@Benjr134: Yeah, that's exactly how I feel.
RickR · 41-45, M
If I may say, without knowing too much, why not just go for it? It's not really about any guys seeing you but rather it's about you feeling free outside in the sun and air. Just let go, get out of your head for a bit and be a little crazy with your friend.
RickR · 41-45, M
Btw, without wanting to sound like a perv....I would definitely ogle you....I suspect seeing you in a bikini would arouse me. 😘
RickR · 41-45, M
I repeat my earlier advice, just do it. Don't think about it, just do it. Do it for your gf, but do it.
JP1119 · 36-40, M
You look smoking hot in the admittedly few pics I've seen of you!
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
Trust me, thats not where confidence comes from. it comes from yourself and not other peoples opinions. I used to be extremely insecure in the past.

 
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