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Would you commit to never talking to a person of the opposite gender (except a therapist or clergy) about your relationship with your spouse since this builds a bond outside of your marriage?

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Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

Hmm no |I wouldn't do that.. I think it's unhealthy to be too insular and for one person to expect the other never to have friends, conversations etc with people of the opposite sex. .

Madeleine · 41-45, F

@Adaydreambeliever Is it a deal breaker for you?

Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

@Madeleine yes absolutely... a) because it's unrealistic.. you'd have to talk to opposite sex in work and in shops etc... and b) because if someone were so insecure and didn't trust us to the extent they wanted us not to talk to others of the opposite sex then that's worrying.. In marriage too being paranoid about others of opposite sex seems controlling... and well unhealthy...