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I Want to Get Married

I want to get married, but I am also worried about so many things. Finances, living together, organising our life, our careers, agreeing on where to live. I wonder if my boyfriend is ready for such a commitment, and if I am ready. I'd like to have a bond that lasts a lifetime and I know we have a potential to make it work, but hearing about so many failed marriages doesn't give you a lot of courage. I would also want my BF to be more stable, to get a job, to show me he can be a high-functioning person and he still struggles to do that. I don't even know if I'm a suitable person to make such a huge commitments and decisions.

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FORMERLYbatovn · 56-60, M

you ned to develop that mindset that WE need to make it work IF its in our future. Waiting for a bit to move in or get married and that is the BEST thing for both of you. Marriage isNOT a 50/50 deal, its a 100/100 deal.....talk EVERYTHING out as you deepen your relationship.......youre going down a road that needs thought and preperation, but also TIME!....:)