I Want to Get Married

I want to get married, but I am also worried about so many things. Finances, living together, organising our life, our careers, agreeing on where to live. I wonder if my boyfriend is ready for such a commitment, and if I am ready. I'd like to have a bond that lasts a lifetime and I know we have a potential to make it work, but hearing about so many failed marriages doesn't give you a lot of courage. I would also want my BF to be more stable, to get a job, to show me he can be a high-functioning person and he still struggles to do that. I don't even know if I'm a suitable person to make such a huge commitments and decisions.