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I Feel Lost

When my ex bf wanted me back a few weeks ago, i declined because he didnt treat me well last year. He just said cool and never texted me back again. Im happy he doesn't bug me anymore but once again, he made me feel rubbish and lost.

I wax very happy , felt stronger at the beginning of 2018 until he contacted me again saying Happy new year. I should have ghosted him instead of replying!

My sister also tore into me saying why were u even talking to him when he disrespected you last year? I felt small and stupid.

I feel very down about myself. I feel undeserving of being loved.

And to the men on SRW, if u wanna just chat with intentions to abuse my vulnerabilities - just DON'T, I will block you without doubts. I ain't dumb. Thanks.

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SageWanderer · 70-79, M

And it does work both ways. My ex would try to contact me but that was before texting became a thing. Try not to be down on yourself, but it's easy to do when all you think about is being with losers.

Julienne · 51-55, F

Sorry for being a bit self centered. Yeah some women can be vicious towards some men.
Thank you.

@SageWanderer

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

@Julienne No, don't be sorry. It's all part of the process. When I was going through the divorce I thought maybe I didn't deserve anyone better. Even after the divorce was final she still played her games. it took time but with the help of friends and family I got better.

Julienne · 51-55, F

Its nice to know u had friends and family to support you. I don't have those supports like that. Im always coping on my own because no one care.

Sounds like your ex partner hadnt change for the better. Some ppl huh(!)

Any way thank you for your advices and your insights 😊

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

@Julienne The shock of the whole thing, I thought they were her friends. Most of them told me they couldn't wait until I quit putting up with her crap.

Julienne · 51-55, F

Oh wow. Now u know! Serves her right! U got kids with her? @SageWanderer

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

@Julienne Yes, we had one. He didn't last long either.

Julienne · 51-55, F

How do u mean ?

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

@Julienne I'll PM you.

Julienne · 51-55, F

Ok
What does pm stands for? 🤔😐