What do you do when you finally realize the person you loved with all your heart and soul never really loved you?

When it happened to me, I took a look at myself, and determined that there was work and growth that I needed to go through. I found an excellent therapist, who helped steer me on a journey of self-discovery that has led me to many rewards. Chief among them was the discovery and development of deep, new, secure, authentic love for a new partner, and perhaps more importantly, a deeper level of self-understanding and acceptance.

I realized that for a long time, I had been looking for my place of sanctuary in my romantic relationships, but that I couldn’t really find it there until I found it within myself.

Personal growth is often painful at times. I hope your journey eases and that you find joy, fulfillment, and magnificence.