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There’s two reasons that I personally witnessed with two of my friends. One wears it so she doesn’t get bothered by any men when she goes out. The other is a lesbian, and doesn’t want to be judged when she goes out, so she wears it on her left hand to make people think she’s straight, when truth is, she shouldn’t give a damn what others think about her and just live life being who she is without having to fake herself out.
CestManan · 46-50, F
That means she is in love right now but then one day out of nowhere it will all be over. Likely cause she will want to give some ex another chance for the umpteenth time.
JeanAnna · F
Maybe she is uncomfortable spending the weekend with someone she isn't married to, so she wears the ring to alleviate her guilt.
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CestManan · 46-50, F
When we first fall in love, it is easy to overthink everything.
Like things you would not notice about anyone else, you suddenly notice on your new love.
"Why did she wear a green shirt? How come she bought a new toaster? How come she took two whole minutes to respond to my text? Why did she park her car the other way"
But eventually one stops caring. She could announce she is working for Allah Ackbar as a spy and you would be like, "That's fine, so what's for dinner?"
Like things you would not notice about anyone else, you suddenly notice on your new love.
"Why did she wear a green shirt? How come she bought a new toaster? How come she took two whole minutes to respond to my text? Why did she park her car the other way"
But eventually one stops caring. She could announce she is working for Allah Ackbar as a spy and you would be like, "That's fine, so what's for dinner?"
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@CestManan lol
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
I would just straight up ask her about the rings.i dont think she'll get mad.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@Jammy You're so welcome! Have a nice day!
Jammy · 51-55, M
@Eddiesolds Thank you. You as well
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@Jammy Thankyou Sir!
PoetryNEmotion · F
They are likely sentimental for her. You won't know exactly what they mean until you ask her. Good luck.
Jammy · 51-55, M
@PoetryNEmotion Thankyou. I will ask her in 10 days when we go away again. 😊
carpediem · 61-69, M
Don't over think it. Make your own decisions. Allowing symbols to influence your choices is likely not the wise strategy. Rise above all that nonsense and think clearly. You'll make the right decisions if you do.
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
Red flag my man. Take it very slow with her and stop involving the kids..
Jammy · 51-55, M
@Quetzalcoatlus I completely agree. It is very fast and the foundation is yet not built. We see the end game, we want to be together but we need to build that foundation.
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
@Jammy with no kids, if it doesn’t work out, no harm no foul. With the kids they get to go through a break up/divorce all over again..
Jammy · 51-55, M
@Quetzalcoatlus I completely agree. Her daughter works in a grocery store after school. I stopped by to get things. She introduced me as her step dad to a colleague. I felt honoured but also a bit scared.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Maybe she likes to give the impression she's a married woman when away from home.
Seems a bit old fashioned but the only person who knows for sure is he one you haven't asked.
Seems a bit old fashioned but the only person who knows for sure is he one you haven't asked.
Jammy · 51-55, M
@Picklebobble2 I thought it was old Fashioned as well. At the hotel, they called her Mrs and she would look at me and say, you like that don't you. I thought it was old fashion, I liked it.
JoePourMan · 61-69, M
I think this is a nice gesture.
Makes it appear you are a married couple.
Makes it appear you are a married couple.
Jammy · 51-55, M
@JoePourMan It felt like that. I enjoyed the feeling.
SpaceCreature · 26-30, F
hmm, i'd be cautious.
Jammy · 51-55, M
@SpaceCreature why do you say that?
SpaceCreature · 26-30, F
@Jammy sounds like she is hinting at something unconsciously and that's usually a high tale sign of "nope"
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Jammy · 51-55, M
@SW-User we are taking another trip weekend of the 11th. I will ask her.
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Jammy · 51-55, M
@SW-User I will do that.
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Jammy · 51-55, M
@MarmeeMarch Relationship is new so we will see.
MarmeeMarch · M
@Jammy Maybe she is used to being married
Jammy · 51-55, M
@MarmeeMarch That could very well be.