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I Feel Deeply and Often Get Hurt Because of It

This has been a month of losses.
A boyfriend, friends.
I feel so hurt. They were special for me but they just walked away. I didn't do anything wrong to them. Yet they couldn't be honest at least. That made me keep waiting and hoping for them to return. I don't want to keep waiting. I am tired... I'm tired of giving my best and getting hurt like this...
Feels like I died and I don't even know how is that I'm still here, feels like I am numb after so much pain.
mljenkins · 51-55, F
Dear, what you need to do is think about it all differently. Ever hear that one man's loss is another man's gain? Turn your losses into gains. You deserve so much more from a bf. Don't be afraid to let them know what it is you want or what your are waiting for. If they are not capable of giving you what you want then you don't need them. And be careful that you are living realistically and not expecting anyone to do something they may not be capable of doing. Js
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@mljenkins thank you
LyricalOne · F
Waiting and hoping don’t get you what you want in life. Being more proactive will help you to feel more in control and stronger in future relationships.
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@LyricalOne I tried them to stay but they don't want to. I can't do nothing about it. I'm hurt.
LyricalOne · F
@SW-User Natural to feel hurt but it’s also possible to learn from the experience.
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Fernie · F
Maybe your expectations are unreasonable. You'll always be hurt and disappointed in that case. Before you get defensive and say "No I don't have unreasonable expectations!!" at least think about it..we often are way more responsible for our misery than the people we blame. Look within. If you are a young person, and your words read as though you are,now would be a good time to look within
Fernie · F
@SW-User some of it is if you are human. In the end we are 100% responsible for our misery and our happiness.
mljenkins · 51-55, F
@Fernie I really appreciate how grounded in reality you are, it's refreshing
Fernie · F
@mljenkins your comment really surprised me...most of the time I get defensiveness from folks. Guess we are both grounded in reality...I find that quite refreshing :>
mljenkins · 51-55, F
Why yes, it happens all the time. Why do you ask?
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@mljenkins why do I ask?
SW-User
🌸 i feel the same. Im sorry
SW-User
@SW-User it's hard. Sorry too.
SW-User
@SW-User Yes it is . Not easy at all . Thank you
Zonuss · 41-45, M
Deal with good people. Not people who pretend to be good.
Fernie · F
@Zonuss If they are pretending to be good, then you believe them until they show their dark side. Not always possible to read people when they are such good fakes
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Fernie The truth about that is that we sometimes are attracted to people who we know aren't good for us and we fall for them anyway. That is a responsibility and habit many of us have yet to acknowledge.
Fernie · F
@Zonuss Some do...a fine example of people getting into relationships for the wrong reasons....humans are warped

 
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