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I Have A Confesson

I have a strange addiction.
I have always wanted the ones that are not good for me.
Somehow, love has to come with shades of pain.
Cold and dark always drag me in.
You would think I would get stronger with age but I'm hopeless and that terrifies me.

Any suggestions?

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4meAndyou · F

During your childhood years, it is somewhat likely that your parents modeled this type of love. It is also likely that your self esteem was so thoroughly squashed that you allow yourself to continue like this.

If I were you, I would learn, first, how to be happy entirely alone. THEN, once you have learned how to care about yourself, and how to nurture yourself, re-assess your own foundations.

DrWatson · 70-79, M

@4meAndyou I second the suggestion about learning to be happy alone.

Niloo · 46-50, F

@4meAndyou
Thank you
Yes
My dad was quite a trouble maker.☺️
I have to say the pandemic has been helpful for me in that sense that I have to stay away from other people and face my demons .
Hopefully I can find that happiness within .

4meAndyou · F

@Niloo 🙏🙏🙏 I will pray that you find it. At least learn to be content.

Niloo · 46-50, F

@DrWatson
It is a very wise suggestion .
Thank you both 🤗