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SeaBreeze · 46-50, F
I think it's possible that you may be looking to get from others what you lack from your inner self. If you're "clingy and attached", it means you are holding onto to someone, wanting love and approval almost desperately. I think anyway? So maybe if you find self love and acceptance, you would be less clingy. Just a thought. 💙
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KayraJordyn · F
Indeed, @Cutiepi23. I feel a "need" for someone who dumped me. Things don't always make 100% sense. But this common desire does. A lot of men need to be needed to feel secure, and I totally get it. There are roles we've all played without thinking about it. I've always been independent, but now I miss some guy every day who left me. The guy who was once "all in". Is this natural for me? No. But it certainly is difficult to say goodbye to him.
I also want someone who needs me. Because I want to need him. And I think that's okay. I want to risk everything for love. It just has to be the right person. And I don't think my ex is that person, but a girl can hope, and hope for better when it doesn't work out.
Which it won't.
So something else must.
I also want someone who needs me. Because I want to need him. And I think that's okay. I want to risk everything for love. It just has to be the right person. And I don't think my ex is that person, but a girl can hope, and hope for better when it doesn't work out.
Which it won't.
So something else must.
KayraJordyn · F
Seriously.
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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
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Slow yet interesting process.
Start with questioning self about the acts you indulge in.
Start with questioning self about the acts you indulge in.
PhoenixPhail · M
Learn how to be independent.