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I Was Caned On The Hands In School

There seems to be a perception that girls received less corporal punishment at school than boys. Having taught in the era when corporal punishment was widespread and having chatted to many people on here, I am not sure that is actually true. However, I am sure there were some schools where boys received corporal punishment and girls did not. Personally I cannot see any reason at all for treating girls more leniently than boys. Girls benefit from firm discipline just as much as their male classmates.
BoeserMann · 61-69, M
Indeed, treating girls more leniently than boys is very wrong. I’d even say girls should be treated considerably stricter than boys (knowing many will reject this idea). But girls typically do profit more from strict discipline than boys, they just need more structure and find it easier to submit to authority.
Sharon · F
At my school girls were caned or slippered for the same things boys were, my teachers didn't discriminate. We got it on our bottoms though, not our hands.
SoFine · 46-50, F
The big black board compass was used many times on my hands - that what us disruptive girls got .......
Oldmanjimbo · 90-99, M
@SoFine: what is a board compass?
SoFine · 46-50, F
@Oldmanjimbo: Used by teachers to make circles on the black board - compass (14inch in length) with bolts that cut my hands...
Oldmanjimbo · 90-99, M
That doesn't sound like an ideal implement with which to punish a child
MartinII · 70-79, M
When I was at a boys grammar school in the 1960s, where the cane was used sparingly, I imagined that there was no caning at equivalent girls schools. I still believe that to have been the case at the two girls schools I knew best. However, many reports from ladies on SW and EP reveal that some girls schools, and some schoolmistresses, were very keen on the cane.
SW-User
In my school girls got the same punishment as boys, cane or slipper on the bottom. But some teachers, usually ladies, seemed to let girls get away with behaviour which boys got punished for.
The one time I saw a girl get caned she got just as many very hard strokes as I got after.
Oldmanjimbo · 90-99, M
@SW-User having differing standards for girls and boys is asking for trouble
SW-User
The headmistress dealt with all equally, it was just some of the lady classroom teachers who seemed to have differing standards.
Petra1960 · 61-69, F
I was in an all girl school. Everybody got the slipper and some unlucky ones got the cane. I have never been caned on my hands.
Petra1960 · 61-69, F
@lorraine: In our home too. Mom was the judge, dad was the executioner.
Oldmanjimbo · 90-99, M
@Petra1960: the cane is a very serious punishment and should be used sparingly in my view.
SW-User
@Petra1960 The lady teachers in my school could really use the slipper as well. Our headmistress was very proficient with her cane as well.
Codrin · M
It seems logical, but I can not remember a girl getting corporal punishments in my primary or secondary school (then, I went to a boy high-school). We boys got it often, with a ruler or a switch on the palm of the hands, in front of the class. In the high school, only the boarders were caned, in private, by the supervisors.
Sharon · F
@Codrin How were girls disciplined? If they weren't completely out of control the school must have had some very effective method in place. That same method could have been used with boys. Now CP has been banned in many countries, that same method can now be used to replace it.
Codrin · M
Maybe at home, I do not know, for on those times we chatted about CPs only between us boys.

PS: Oh, I remembered that during my secondary school a girls was expelled for repeated misbehaviour.
Sharon · F
@Codrin The point is, the schools had a very effective alternative to CP. They ought to use it now instead of whining that the ban on CP has led to a breakdown in discipline. That's clearly an outright lie.
My granny was caned in school and my stepmom got the paddle! Thank goodness it's not around else I might have got it
Jonathanzee · 51-55, M
Agree.No distinction between gender
chikki · 70-79, M
@Jonathanzee When I was deputy, all boys private school, i often had to cane or slipper boys after school. This could be seen from the pathway leading to the field and not only could the slipper and cane be seen to be used but a clear view could be obtained of boys bending over the chair and the slipper or cane landing on a bare bottom. A girls school about ten minures away also used the cane but only on knickers. Both schools were 8-13. We closed early one day and some boys went up to the girls school with the intent of having a laugh at seeing if they could see a girl being caned. It appeared they saw three girls getting on their knickers before being caught. They were report to the head and it was demanded that i cane the boys bare bottoms and the girls headmistress was to be allowed in the office to see it. The head agreed and the five boys, all 11, were told to report to muy office after school where they would get six of the cane on their bare bottoms. The caning was carried out with the headmistress watching while i caned their bare bottoms.
About three weeks later the rolls were reversed. Six girls were watch some boys getting the slipper or cane and seeing it done on their bare bottoms. They were caught and reported. The headmistress refused point blank to punish the girls and said it was a natural thing for 12 year old girls to see a boy nude. She said it was the boys fault for being in trouble.
TAlk about double standards. If boys sneek into a girls school and see girls caned on their knickers they get six on their bare bottoms. However is girls sneek in to see the boys getting it, it is fully acceptable and the girls not punished and its the boys faults foe being in trouble.

The relationship between the two schools was, to say the least, very bad after this and remained so for about ten years.
vnvnvngjhtgty · 41-45, F
yes equal treatment
Anthony2 · 51-55, M
they got is equally at home

 
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