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I Lack Self Control

I'm a married woman who's husband is out of town. I stopped into a bar this evening with a friend to see the end of the UNC football game. We left about 4 beers later and were walked to our car by the guys we were sitting with. One wanted a goodnight kiss... what's wrong with a little kiss anyway. I think he kisses everything I have several times. I managed to pull away before I yielded everything, but it wasn't easy, and I feel like I'm on fire.
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jenniferd · F
My husband is military so I can relate when he's gone
kinkymech · M
but do you go out and party and find yourself in this situation?
jenniferd · F
@kinkymech: I have yes
@jenniferd Everyone needs a release now an then ;)
dcsm42 · 70-79, M
You sound like a good girl with a high sex drive and some naughty thoughts and feelings. My wife is similar. I traveled on business and was hard for her with me being away. Our love is strong but we knew there would be temptation...I trust her and knew she would make good choices and she never proved me wrong. We never shared all the details but what we did I found to be very exciting. There's a little guilt that cums with doing something you're not suppose to be doing but don't dwell on it too long. Enjoy life and be grateful...just be careful:) D.C.
dcsm42 · 70-79, M
I will..she's in the shower now...a perfect place to give her a hug :) dc
McNaughty · 31-35, F
I've heard lines like that before. Sorry love, seems that I've dropped the soap - can you grab it please? Eowwwweee
dcsm42 · 70-79, M
Nothing like some good clean fun😜She knows I love to help on the cleanup. She loved that too😍
jennypenny · 70-79, F
By that logic, of course, you ought not to mind if he starts messing with another woman
McNaughty · 31-35, F
I would understand if he had an encounter - at least I think I would. He's away so much I'm sure it bothers him too.
jennypenny · 70-79, F
Sounds like you need to get things together before it's too late. @McNaughty:
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Nudedude · 46-50, M
This happened to me with an acquaintances wife. We didn’t/couldn’t stop
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@Nudedude Is it still on going with her
Nudedude · 46-50, M
Occasionally yes. @bhatjc
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@Nudedude Has your friend found out about him and his wife or no. Who started it with your friends wife. Her or you
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
You just escaped . ..next time take precautions....
Truly self control is not easier sometimes...I also feel that...while working it happens..I lost concentration all too ... sometimes I feel why this happens with me ,I was better before atleast I was able to concentrate on my work.
I also know reason as hormones are at peak level, ones they release they effect your behaviour too much ...one should calm down himself before anything wrong happens...
Because hormones control brain and brain controls hormones...
You can do yoga to increase your self control and power 🤓
SharingKayla · 56-60, M
I encourage my wife to let it happen and enjoy herself....just be safe!
McNaughty · 31-35, F
@SharingKayla wish my husband was like that.
SharingKayla · 56-60, M
@McNaughty Maybe he is?
McNaughty · 31-35, F
No, but he has many other good qualities.
camoboy00 · 26-30, M
Sounds like it's not something you can help. It's nice that you want to keep your hubby happy, but it's gotta be a two way street, you can't force yourself to keep from doing the things you want to and the things that make you happy for him. You should talk with him about it. And I know this story is nearly a year old, but I felt like responding anyway.
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rhouse · 56-60, M
Does your hubby know? @McNaughty
McNaughty · 31-35, F
@rhouse no
rhouse · 56-60, M
What would he say if you told him? Maybe it would excite him. @McNaughty
bhatjc · 46-50, M
So did you keep walking away with your friend.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@McNaughty: Damn you where reading my mind. that is scary.
McNaughty · 31-35, F
I had to skip over most of it..Damn - did he really think that?
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@McNaughty: Yeah i did. And what else did you have to skip over
Sounds like you should not be visiting bars. Self control is easier before the beer.
McNaughty · 31-35, F
How well I know, but you don't expect to be out in those situations. It was careless.
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McNaughty · 31-35, F
@Angel01: thanks for your thoughtful comments.
More than three years later, this incident continues to inflame readers.
McNaughty · 31-35, F
@LamontCranston I love it
@McNaughty I remember an incident a few years back....ah, well.
Orangehotrod · 61-69, M
Life is short! If it felt right go for it! If you sense it wasn’t you should back away!
McNaughty · 31-35, F
@Orangehotrod It felt good, but not right.
Orangehotrod · 61-69, M
@McNaughty than you made the right choice! I always left those up to my wife she seemed to know!
SW-User
You did the right thing... even if it wasn't easy.
Hotelroom38 · 51-55, M
bit if a tricky Situation...
McNaughty · 31-35, F
Indeed it is.
Nothing wrong with that in my opinion. :)
Oh how that couldve ended differently 😅🔥❤️
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McNaughty · 31-35, F
That's not a proper question for an open forum.
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McNaughty · 31-35, F
Ok
Pherick · 41-45, M
Glad you were able to stop, but sounds like it was a bit of fun ...
McNaughty · 31-35, F
Hot
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@McNaughty: As hot as you are
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rhouse · 56-60, M
Have you ever taken it further?
Rhodesianman · 56-60, M
If your married don't go there nothing ever stays hidden and the guilt might just eat you up and end your marriage so if you want to stay married don't go there .
Dadbod52 · 56-60, M
we have to be on guard all the time
hillbilly · 26-30, M
I bet he was having an amazing time
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
Yeahh... Me too!
Finerthings · 56-60, M
buy you a drink? lol
McNaughty · 31-35, F
@bhatjc: @bhatjc: I'm a married woman so it's a balancing act. I can have fun here tho.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@McNaughty: What ever you do is up to you. walk that fine line :)
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@McNaughty: Good choice on the ultra
plainlover2002 · 61-69, M
Lucky frustrated guy.
McNaughty · 31-35, F
@plainlover2002: well, I hope I don't find out how it is coming back up.
plainlover2002 · 61-69, M
Just your head the next day.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@plainlover2002: Good point man
Mmmm ok but you did break it off and pull away....Nothing wrong with a little pass time while hubby is away.... Maybe hubby should either do the same or get a job closer to home....
Allthingscurious · 46-50, M
You should try making this a habit to get your sex drive amped. Flirt and flaunt as if you're edging, then stop before it gets out of hand. Then when you get home, you'll be all ready to wear yourself out!
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@McNaughty: And a lovely one at that
McNaughty · 31-35, F
@bhatjc: :)
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@McNaughty: thank you ;)
notsure · 56-60, M
You should be able to control yourself but where is the harm in a kiss😘
notsure · 56-60, M
@McNaughty: yes you can give twice as much love😉
McNaughty · 31-35, F
:)
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newstu · M
westwiiler · 51-55, M
I have my moments, but I think I have too many double standard issues. I think I want to step out, but wouldn't want her to do the same.

So, I flirt
Nothing wrong with getting felt up a lil ;)
Love to imagine how things would turn out if things went differently 🔥@McNaughty
McNaughty · 31-35, F
@PrinceArthas it’s not how, just where.
Love it. 🔥@McNaughty
zerofuks2give · 41-45, M
Well your username definitely seems appropriate lol
McNaughty · 31-35, F
Well, that's just my online persona. I'm pretty reserved usually in my real life. Sometimes I do get carried away tho :)
zerofuks2give · 41-45, M
@McNaughty: same. I'm very well-behaved until you get a few drinks in me LOL
McNaughty · 31-35, F
@zerofuks2give: Haha - yep
Pretzel · 61-69, M
have you gone out drinking since then?
McNaughty · 31-35, F
Yes, but I've been more careful. I'm so conflicted.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@McNaughty: What you do is up to you mcnaughty
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I don`t need alcohol to have these feelings.
McNaughty · 31-35, F
I need alcohol to loose control tho.
MasterLee · 56-60, M
Very naughty
have you done it again?
McNaughty · 31-35, F
@approachingmyexpirationdate you can pm me sometime - I have to go now.
@McNaughty will do :)
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Synner · M
Sound harmless......until you follow your impulses.
McNaughty · 31-35, F
Yeah - that's true. I shouldn't get myself if those kinds of situations.
SW-User
Well wrap that up to an experience, and now you know what to do, and not do. It looks like you know you dodged a bullet, and won't be doing that again.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
you have needs - and are very cute
McNaughty · 31-35, F
I'm a skinny girl without many curves, but I do have needs.
bhatjc · 46-50, M
@McNaughty: We all have needs lovely lady
melbeacher · 61-69, M
You are only human and we all crave physical touch.
melbeacher · 61-69, M
Neither do I. Especially if I had a few beers.
McNaughty · 31-35, F
@melbeacher: yes, that makes a big difference.
melbeacher · 61-69, M
Believe me I am the exact same way.
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McNaughty · 31-35, F
Yes - almost. Sometimes I just want to shut my eyes and go with the flow.
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McNaughty · 31-35, F
Yes - almost
SW-User
he kisses everything ?you mean the table, the restroom wall...
rickoo164 · 56-60, M
You've been cool !
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
are you a UNC alum?
zerofuks2give · 41-45, M
You have quite a popular thread here lol
Jennagurl · 46-50, T
Intense desire I'm sure.
Don't fret
he is also kissing and groping
ronisme1 · 61-69, M

 
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