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I Lack Self Control

I'm a married woman who's husband is out of town. I stopped into a bar this evening with a friend to see the end of the UNC football game. We left about 4 beers later and were walked to our car by the guys we were sitting with. One wanted a goodnight kiss... what's wrong with a little kiss anyway. I think he kisses everything I have several times. I managed to pull away before I yielded everything, but it wasn't easy, and I feel like I'm on fire.

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dcsm42 · 70-79, M

You sound like a good girl with a high sex drive and some naughty thoughts and feelings. My wife is similar. I traveled on business and was hard for her with me being away. Our love is strong but we knew there would be temptation...I trust her and knew she would make good choices and she never proved me wrong. We never shared all the details but what we did I found to be very exciting. There's a little guilt that cums with doing something you're not suppose to be doing but don't dwell on it too long. Enjoy life and be grateful...just be careful:) D.C.

McNaughty · 31-35, F

Thank you - if I could have that conversation, I'd feel better.

dcsm42 · 70-79, M

Oh, I know how hard it is to bring up...sometimes it can be timing...but NOT when you're feeling guilty. Start testing the waters with your hubby but take it slow.

McNaughty · 31-35, F

@dcsm42: Ill see if I can find a good time. I feel guilty if he sees me look at another man tho.

dcsm42 · 70-79, M

My wife was the same way...she still can't tell all but I'm ok with that. I was surprised when she told me some things but really surprised how I felt. I suspected she might have some desires from the pleasure she had when we were together...she is definitely sexual:) I found it to very exciting:)

McNaughty · 31-35, F

Wow - she's lucky that you feel the way you do. I'm just not sure about my husband and don't want to screw up his feelings for me. He may never trust me again if I told him how I feel. I'm sure you're right - the timing has to be correct for a conversation like that.

dcsm42 · 70-79, M

It's a thin line between jealousy and the excitement I felt...fear the dangers and enjoy the excitement. Trust in your love is the key.

McNaughty · 31-35, F

Thanks

dcsm42 · 70-79, M

You're welcome...enjoy the day...and the nights :) dc

McNaughty · 31-35, F

Ok - you too :). Give your wife a big hug.

dcsm42 · 70-79, M

I will..she's in the shower now...a perfect place to give her a hug :) dc

McNaughty · 31-35, F

I've heard lines like that before. Sorry love, seems that I've dropped the soap - can you grab it please? Eowwwweee

dcsm42 · 70-79, M

Nothing like some good clean fun😜She knows I love to help on the cleanup. She loved that too😍