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What is wrong with me?

So I have no issues having and making guy friends but when it comes to girl friends, I have literally none and it makes me feel as if something is wrong with me. Every guy in my life has said that something must be wrong with me because I don’t have any friends, but I don’t believe in keeping people around me who are just out to use me. So because I dint have friends who I can go out with and do superficial things with apparently that makes me “untrustworthy “ like I can’t believe this shit... this guy who I was with told me this and all the while he was victim shaming me like wtf? So because I’m not willing to be fake I’m a bad person

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BeautifulLibra · 46-50, F

Most of the time if a female has no friends someone either jealous of her or you are pretty and they feel intimidated. The "friends" only want to use you to pick up guys and to make them look good. They want to use you also as their flunky(personal experience) whom they can call when their friends aren't around. Nothing is wrong with you. I'm going through this too. I have only 2 TRUE friends whom I can say really care about me. You're not a bad person, and having a handful of friends doesn't make you any better. The guy had no right to victim shame you.

Angelwithbrokenwingxo · 26-30, F

Thank you for sharing this, it just sucks that some women are like that@BeautifulLibra

BeautifulLibra · 46-50, F

@Angelwithbrokenwingxo You're Welcome. I know how it is.