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What is wrong with me?

So I have no issues having and making guy friends but when it comes to girl friends, I have literally none and it makes me feel as if something is wrong with me. Every guy in my life has said that something must be wrong with me because I don’t have any friends, but I don’t believe in keeping people around me who are just out to use me. So because I dint have friends who I can go out with and do superficial things with apparently that makes me “untrustworthy “ like I can’t believe this shit... this guy who I was with told me this and all the while he was victim shaming me like wtf? So because I’m not willing to be fake I’m a bad person
Aquarius39 · 41-45, F
I feel the same way you do. I always get along better with men.
BeautifulLibra · 46-50, F
Most of the time if a female has no friends someone either jealous of her or you are pretty and they feel intimidated. The "friends" only want to use you to pick up guys and to make them look good. They want to use you also as their flunky(personal experience) whom they can call when their friends aren't around. Nothing is wrong with you. I'm going through this too. I have only 2 TRUE friends whom I can say really care about me. You're not a bad person, and having a handful of friends doesn't make you any better. The guy had no right to victim shame you.
Angelwithbrokenwingxo · 26-30, F
Thank you for sharing this, it just sucks that some women are like that@BeautifulLibra
BeautifulLibra · 46-50, F
@Angelwithbrokenwingxo You're Welcome. I know how it is.
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I completely understand. Ppl get turned off fast when they realize while dating that I only have a handful of friends and it appears like there’s something wrong with me. I have yet to make friends with a few girls bc majority of girls I’ve encountered just want to pick me apart and annoy the shit out of me by calling to much with their clinginess or asking for favors over and over again.
Go out with yourself - why do you want a man that will make you feel like you have to be on all the time ? Or a GF - that is just going to suck the spirit right out of U....
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
I don't have female friends, either. I kinda don't want any, either, if I'm being completely honest.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
I have no friends offline, at all.

All my friends are on here, and all are women.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
You just haven’t found the right friends yet. It’s hard today because too many people are shallow and superficial. You have your standards, so stick with them. The guys who shame you are not worth your time.
bookerdana · M
Absolutely nothing,loys pf women have trouble being friends wiyj other women
TexChik · F
Girls may be a bit jealous of your ability to attract men
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
What is wrong is you think something is wrong. You talk and hang with whoever makes you feel good. Nobody else can decide that for you. You are meeting girls who have different experiences and likes. That's all. Dont worry about it
Montanaman · M
Seems to happen a lot with women.
Wife has more close guy friends, compared to a few women friends, that aren't really that close. 🤷
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