I Am Fed Up

I definitely hear you. I've been through that myself years ago. It's a very hard situation. I'm sorry you are going through this and having to experience this. I will pray that God will give you the wisdom to know how to handle this.

The debate today, started with him saying his Auntie died. He told our daughter about that. So, I told my 10 year old girl, “ It’s not actually his Auntie”. “ She’s his Great Auntie.” ( It’s my husband’s grandad’s sister.) So, here in England, we specify that relative as Great Auntie. Though, he calls her just “Auntie”. I was just educating my daughter about it, then he went mental about it. Repeatedly saying that, she’s not his Great Auntie, they call her Auntie. It went into a massive fight because he was going mental.

My ex was negative like that. It took a coworker to say, "Lifes to short to be unhappy", and I moved on.

You need to give your life some very serious thought. I did, and my only real regret is that I did not do it sooner. You are in your thirties, and you could easily make a new life for yourself and have 50 more years of happiness, compared to 50 more years of this same misery.

Think very long and hard.

My roommate is like thatsonetimes - known him 12 years. I ask him to do anything and he complains. I’m like a 24 yr old mother to a 24 year old. He Just wants to party and have fun - highly irresponsible and inconsiderate

That would drive me insane. I mean the debate is good, but there are reasons no one wants to do it 24/7 over the tiniest things!

I know someone like that, a female, but ya know ive decided not to waste my breath on her. May that person be removed from your life, I feel your pain.

Sounds very exhausting

DTMFA.