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I Am Scared of Relationships

I’m someone who will get very nervous when I’m dating a new guy and it takes me forever to get use to him. However, this is something my Mom told me that brought a different insight to why that is. To her, the reason I’m so nervous is because those weren’t the right type of men for me. I’ll know when the right one comes along when we meet for the first time and I feel at ease around him. ❤️

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Zaxel · 26-30, M

people have reason to be worried when dating new people that they dont have a prior relationship with. you dont know anything about them and most people start off on their best behavior. just because you feel at ease in the beginning or you dont, says nothing about what the long-term will be like

canusernamebemyusername · M

@Zaxel True. Some very insane people can make you feel so comfortable and relaxed.

Zaxel · 26-30, M

@canusernamebemyusername yeah thats exactly why a smooth beginning is a reason to be cautious lol, not let your guard down completely, thats how they get you

SoFine · 46-50, F

Your true love is your "Self Love"

1. You validate you
2. You complete you

Till you are at-home in you, that "Nothing" is missing. ...
Then seek love from a place of inner knowing, inner self anchoring. Else you will repeal others by your needy, your insecurity. Long-term relationships are where you get challenged, your partner will press your insecure button, yes...not at first, but in 2 years plus. So if you are not secure in who you are, you will be pushed to see your true value of you.

canusernamebemyusername · M

That is a good thing though. Just take your time. You don't have to rush anything.

Mbingh01 · 61-69, F

Listen to your mom, she only has your best interest in mind.

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