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I'm Tired of Being Rejected

A friend of 19 years is getting married tomorrow. I thought he was a close friend..

Guess who didn't get an invite?!

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Don't personalize it. If anything, have a heart-to-heart with him in a month or two, letting him know how you feel. Did he ever tell you about his wedding (or engagement) within the previous year? Sometimes, it's the total costs of venues, decorations, meals, photographers, DJ, and the list goes on. The more guests accommodated, the higher the costs. This happened to me once - a person I knew had to trim her reception guest list to save money. We're still on good terms on this very day. At the same time, it's most recommended to be in your right mind by then.

electropura · 31-35, M

@DiamondPrincess89 Like I've already alluded to, it's the fact I wasn't even aware of the event happening until I found out on Facebook. I knew of the engagement but that was it. If I was told directly I wouldn't be invited for whatever reason, no doubt I'd be sad but I'd accept it and wouldn't bear a grudge. But apparently I wasn't worthy of that. Oh well, lesson learned.

DiamondPrincess89 · 31-35, F

Lesson learned. He did not have the courtesy to tell you. Bad move on his part. Anyways, keep your head up!

electropura · 31-35, M

@DiamondPrincess89 That's it. I know if the roles were reversed, I'd say so. But such is life.