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			Flenflyys · 31-35, F			
		
		Dont take it personal. I had a lot of close friends express anger or sadness because i didnt invite them but the truth is my husband and i both have big families and we just couldnt afford above a certain number. And there are rules to follow like if i invite one cousin i have to invite them all, plus their partners.
			
			
			
			
			
		
			electropura · 36-40, M			
		
		@Flenflyys Well, I could've dealt with it I was told directly, but I found out through Facebook!
			
			
			
			
			
		
			Flenflyys · 31-35, F			
		
		I didnt tell any of them directly either. Now that i think of it i should have, but there is just so much details to think about and for a lot, if not most, weddings are more of a family affair.
			
			
			
			
			
		
			electropura · 36-40, M			
		
		@Flenflyys yes, you should have. But maybe I'm not worthy of this lot, forget the loyalty and bailing out in tough times...
			
			
			
			
			
		
			Flenflyys · 31-35, F			
		
		Tell your friend then, but maybe wait until after the wedding. One friend actually never spoke to me again.
			
			
			
			
			
		
			electropura · 36-40, M			
		
		@Flenflyys oh, I will Sunday! No doubt there.
			
			
			
			
			
		

