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I Am In a Relationship But I Don't Feel Loved

My boyfriend don't make time for me. I tried talking to him yesterday Abt me day when I came home and he was looking at videos on his phone... I asked him if he can put the phone away and make time for the two of us.... He said 'yes... Talk I'm listening'. But he didn't put down the phone... After a while I got upset and started shouting and now he not speaking to me.

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quitwhendone · M

He should give you more attention. But, some people can listen while not looking at you. A lot of people do that. I often don't look at people when they are talking but I am listening intently. I don't know if he was giving you the proper amount of attention or not but I am just throwing out a possibility. People are too attached to their phones.

slobound · 46-50, M

Two things come to mind, either he was having a bad day and needed to zone out or there's a serious (lack of) respect issue here.

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destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@slobound I'm saving to have something to fall on. I have tried talking to him.. he sometimes responds positivity .... But that's it... He don't follow up w his words. One phone call from his friends and he leaves me home again... Repeatedly

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

Thank u 😘

slobound · 46-50, M

@destinyfabulous Build yourself up that nest egg to fall back on, I don't know if you have family you can ask for help if you need to but don't hold on any longer than you have to if it's only crushing you emotionally.

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

Didn't you have a post on earlier that he was getting gifts for his ex?

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@Beatbox34 he spent on his exes .... That's the past... I'm the only gf he treats this way.

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

@destinyfabulous I remember that post. The reason I brought this up is because you need to have a word with him about his behavior. Try talking to him and explain it to him what's hurting you. If he still doesn't get it then you need to protect yourself.

destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

@Beatbox34 I'm saving to protect myself.. he will say he wants things to be good and then leave me home alone when his friends phone him ...it's a constant cycle

4meAndyou · F

If you had just taken off all your clothes and walked around for a bit like that, I don't think he would have been looking at his phone...😂

JBird · F

It happens in every relationship. Just be patient and rethink for a while till you make a decision.

bijouxbroussard · F

Counseling, move on, or stay and continue to be unhappy. At the core, those are the options that you can control. And the first one is negligible if he refuses to participate.

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