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I Always Wanted To Have A Big Family

The older I get the sadder I get realizing that its probably never going to happen for me. I have a great big heart, lots of love, and the head for it but not the kind of look or personality that makes me anybody's one. I'm really a good woman, I cook, I clean, I work, and want to be a mother to my very core but most of all I love completely. Its still not enough, no one even bats an eye my way. Its not fair. I meet so many people I just shake my head about, I'm not great but I'm not that bad either, so its frustrating seeing people who don't care, take things for granted or get things they've never worked for just because. I'd like to get married and have 5 or 6 kids but I guess not getting that isn't all that bad, it could be worst.

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gmatthewb · 51-55, M

Sounds to me like you keep meeting men who are too blind to see all that you can offer them in life and all the happiness they could have if they gave you a chance. I'm sorry to hear you haven't had much luck in the relationship world. From this you seem like a wonderful woman that anyone would be lucky to have in their lives. I hope you find a guy who isn't an idiot and sees your worth.

RobG22 · 51-55, M

I really feel bad for. You can foster, or adopt children. My parents did this after my sister and I, both graduated. My sister was 6 years behind. I graduated from college and my sister graduated from high school & bought her own house and moved out. They fostered a couple kids before my adopted brother. They had him from Day 1, he was born addicted crack cocaine. Of course, not knowing if you would want kids without a husband. Good luck with whatever you would decide. I'm here it you want to chat.

AG7777 · 41-45, M

This is the story of a billion women. The way society is today, such women are passed over and those who are not cut out for this wind up sliding into it- and doing a poor job. It is a massive tragedy, and, if this were a real society with a culture, women like April would wind up getting what she wants. But this is a bizarro world.

drtt943

I’m so sorry. You sound like a wonderful woman.

Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F

Hope you find someone

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