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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Both are nasty. It doesn’t make the loser look better either way.
Majorlatency · M
Both are sad.. However long term is worse. Short term implies lust with minimal emotional connection. Long term implies a mental and physical connection.
Trippy · F
In my opinion both are equally as detrimental. Both shatter trust regardless of frequency or seclusion.
Nanori · F
The long term, there'd be only one person to murder
@Nanori lol ... I like your thinking!
Easier for me to move past if multiple partners, as they didn’t love me at all. A cheating partner over a long time, means they actually loved someone else, and is a much deeper layer of betrayal to me.
Menetics · 26-30, F
@DarkHeaven I agree.
Magenta · F
Hmm, both are bad. Maybe the long period of time, because it is a long term lie/dishonor they take part in continually.
JoePourMan · 61-69, M
Cheating with multiple partners.
Shows lack of respect for you, for others and for themselves
Shows lack of respect for you, for others and for themselves
Pretzel · 61-69, M
equally bad
just different number of players involved
just different number of players involved
iMystery · M
How dare you post such a question while I'm Hung over and can't think straight? 😄
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
This is like asking “what’s worse, the emotional connection or STD’s?”.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
One person for long periods. Because that's means they had something together
That is a very intriguing question
everyoneknows · 31-35, T
both so freaking disgusting.
Downsides for either, multiples mean that sex doesn't mean anything and possibly more exposure to stds, one means that they are responsible and just more into someone else. I guess the one, long term.
exexec · 61-69, C
The long time relationship because it indicates an emotional attachment. Multiple one-nighters indicates the person likes sex with no strings attached, just for fun or to meet some internal need. Neither is good.
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
The long term affair is worse. Because they have that intimacy that comes with a long term relationship. Several affairs, well it's just sex.
ExperienceDLT · M
Cheating is cheating doesn't matter the circumstances
InOtterWords · F
Both are awful
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
I would go, I have to tell you about all my girlfriends 😂