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I Hate the Holidays

People put on fake smiles and pretend everything is great. Families get together and eat too much then argue or sleep. I hate it when someone says Happy Thanksgiving when they don't know me.
Christmas is the worst. People saying peace on earth and merry Christmas and they don't mean it. They're worried about what they're getting for Christmas or how they're going to pay for Christmas presents.
I hate holidays. They can't end too soon.
Regarding Christmas? It's fast losing any appeal due to the fact that it's hardly recognised for what it IS. No more 'Happy Christmas'; the trend these days is to wish people 'Happy Holiday' because Christianity, and what Christmas is really about, has lost all true context. Atheist love to celebrate Christmas whilst not accepting the giving and exchanging of gifts are for a token reason which has long been lost.

You are right, Christmas is the worst when considering the true reason is getting sunk deeper and deeper into an excuse simply to spend, spend and spend, under the guise of 'Happy Holiday'.

I don't suggest everyone feels this way, but more and more are.
TexChik · F
@tilagirl: oh thank you for the open threat . Genius
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@NearMiss: I wouldn't say that's entirely true whilst knowing there are some facts which bear up to what you say. Yes, it was the very last day of a pagan ceremony but it was by method that Christianity crept into December 25th.

(Sorry in advance for the long reply ... )


December 25th was a day that had many meanings but was adopted by Christian's as the date of Christ's birth. On that same date, the practice of Saturmalia was celebrated (week long period of wickedness and debauchery) which extended from 17 up to 25 December so, in effect, Christmas day was the last day of Saturmalia. However, Christians at that time knew what they were doing and in effect 'hijacked' that last day but it was hardly a success:

Christians had little success, however, refining the practices of Saturnalia. As Stephen Nissenbaum, professor history at the University of Massachussetts, Amherst, writes, [i]“In return for ensuring massive observance of the anniversary of the Saviour's birth by assigning it to this resonant date, the Church for its part tacitly agreed to allow the holiday to be celebrated more or less the way it had always been.”{/i}

Christianity 'crept' into December 25th. It's how Christians tried to hold a religious celebration within Saturmalia which didn't hold true, whilst in the end Christmas itself was accepted to be what it was turned into. It's well accepted that Christ was not born on December 25 from biblical context and manuscripts found over the years; some would argue that, if nothing else, it's one day where people remembered his birth and take it for what it's worth.
Texaspilot · 51-55, M
I think such experiences are different in each family. I cannot ever recall an argument ever at any of our holidays. I'm lucky I suppose. I look forward to getting together with my sister, mom, nieces and daughters for the holidays. We laugh, reminisce and always have lots of sharing and fun.

I suspect perhaps I'm in a minority that way.
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ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
I don't imagine, based on your posts so far that there is anything you DO like. Do you hate yourself as well?:)
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@NearMiss: you're one of those people who like to tell other people what they need but don't follow their own advice
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@NearMiss: awww how sweet
Fernie · F
I have a feeling you hate a lot of things scrooge. Sorry you can't be joyous
Fernie · F
@tilagirl: Exactly! People can't do anything to us unless we allow them to. Saying people fake smile during the holidays isn't fair. The holidays are a happy time for many people...I don't happen to be one of those people but I enjoy others happiness.
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@Fernie: okay
@Fernie: That's a fair comment. Everyone does their own thing, which is just as fair. But ... It makes more sense to live and let live without going deeper into our personal beliefs than is needed. Good comment :)
TheletterO · 22-25, M
You're a mean one. Misses Grinch. You have roaches. In. Your soul. Your smiles full of bile and your heart is full of mold Misses griiiIIIINCH.
MLGecko · 46-50, M
Merry Christmas
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@Fernie: me too
Fernie · F
@tilagirl: you too what? wake up pissed at something every day?
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@Fernie: yep
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@NearMiss: k cool
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@NearMiss: right
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perhaps you should be the change you want.
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@NearMiss: Am I complaining when I speak my mind? it's called honesty
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@NearMiss: deal with it
Not everyone is like that.. but yeah a lot of people are.
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@icecoldzt: the whole thing is crap
@tilagirl: for you maybe.. not for me though, I like it because it gives me an opportunity to show my appreciation to those people that I don't get to see everyday but have given me so much without (them) realizing it. It's also one of those days that I get to make some people happy without needing to have any reason for doing so.
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@icecoldzt: okay
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Holidays are the hardest for me. I just hibernate if I could, and wait 'til it's over. I look forward to getting back to normal.😞 Hello girl.☺
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People are so fake it makes me wanna throw up.

hey girl what up☺
wintersecret · 41-45, M
@MM: i hope u surely enjoy the holiday
carpediem · 61-69, M
You need professional help.
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@NearMiss: yeah I hate everything and everyone and you can't handle that.
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@NearMiss: then leave me alone or live with it
Mert5356 · 41-45, M
I am usually the one who is the most quiet and sits apart from everyone else.
I haven't taken part in holidays for over a decade,
Now, it all seems weird to me
Renikari · F
I can relate to this. Ignore the rest of these dipshits, having this outlook will keep you from ending up as delusional as they are.
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@NearMiss: you sound like you are miserable because you're spending your time telling other people what to do. And maybe you are too stupid to know how uneducated you are
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Good
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I don't think this goes for everyone but I can agree with some of what you say. For some families it's a time to come together for better or worse. Does it suck? Sure. But hell....at least the food is good.
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thanks but no hugs okay
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Who the hell do you think you are?
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@IstillmissEP: so you post stuff that upsets people and you're telling me and everyone here to calm down?
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
As an adult it really does feel like a lot of it is about obligation rather than true enjoyment.
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that's what people tell me
I don't want that
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
Yeah, it really makes it suck sometimes. I just want to eat cookies and not bother with Santa Theater.
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I don't bother with at all.
Some of you in the comments honesty need to chill the fuck out no need to fight her just because you disagree with her thoughts on holidays
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caesar7 · 61-69, M
It's pure commercialism..period. Christmas is for Christ and those who are spiritual. But it has lost its meaning unfortunately.

 
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