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I Believe Females Need To Learn Their Place In Life And Submit

So here is how I was raised:

If you're in a monogamous relationship, you owe it to your partner to take care of their sexual needs. Whenever they need you to. It doesn't matter if you don't want to, it doesn't matter if you enjoy it. You decided your relationship is exclusive, it isn't fair to them to suddenly deny them sexual release, and the get mad when they seek it elsewhere. This applies to both men and women and same sex couples, but let's be honest: it mostly applies to hetero couples and women withholding sex like its a reward instead of a right.

Don't like it? Don't be monogamous. Plenty of other relationship styles out there.
CarmenSanDiego · 36-40, F
You were "raised" this way? You must have had an interesting childhood.

This type of "sex" which is had for a "release" sounds barbaric and unenjoyable. Actually, you sound barbaric and unenjoyable.
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CarmenSanDiego · 36-40, F
@ImLobo: of one doesn't want to do it, then presumably it wouldn't be enjoyable.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Sounds like a guy wrote that.
Protocol2000 · 22-25, M
Y do u say that brownstone?
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
@Abhi007r: Girls are not like that.
Protocol2000 · 22-25, M
@MrBrownstone: lol whatever 😂😂😂
SW-User
There are plenty of ways to show respect for your partner and their needs without submitting to whatever their sexual whims are whenever they demand it. Sometimes being a good partner means being intimate when you are not necessarily in the mood, but respect is a two way street and just as partners shouldn't deny each other their basic needs, they also shouldn't force those needs onto each other without consideration of the fact that they might not be in the mood at that particular moment. Sex is an incredibly important and awesome part of relationships, but being at someone's sexual beck and call appeals only to a few and causes deep resentment in others, and sex is very frequently better and more profound when it involves mutual respect and connection than when it involves resentment and servitude.
CoffeeFirst · 56-60, F
@SW-User Preach.
nahright09 · 41-45, M
@SW-User Perfectly stated. I had an ex that "needed" me to do things that were far out of my comfort zone.

I did them, i shouldn't have because they went against everything i believed in with regards to how your partner (or anyone else) is to be treated. She was older than me and i just didn't want to let her down.

Couldn't do it more than a few times as it was too much of an internal battle for me. She ended up looking for it other places and finding it while we were still together (without telling me). I found out and that was the end of the relationship.
UncoolMother · 46-50, F
when you are horny and your partner isnt in the mood there always is the option for masturbation... might even get your partner horny too if you let them watch
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
Yes. Allow yourself to be raped in the name of monogamy and pleasing the man.

Right on. Let me get right on that. 🙄
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Memez · 26-30, F
What on Earth!!!! Who drummed this nonsense into your mind? It has to be mutually pleasurable!

You're not a toy or a f--k doll, you are a person with a mind and a heart. And if a man doesn't have the same kind of sexual fantasies as you, then break up because there is someone out there who does.

If you enjoy being used and doing things you don't enjoy (?) Then fair enough, but I see a road of unhappiness from that.

Peace and love 💐
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
@Memez 👏
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GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
This is excellent in theory but seldom happens in real life. If you are not feeling well physically or emotionally it is very difficult and even unreasonable to expect someone to be engaged intimately
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
@GJOFJ3 The same is true for a monogamous relationship, so that is not a reason to close this option..
its all about compromises really.. sometimes you just gotta let him do his thing and be over with it
if you dont give him what he wants he is gonna get it from someone else
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
I think I have been around the block a few more times than you and I happen to be a submissive woman but that doesn't mean that I need to give it up just because he he says so. If he is getting it from someone else then you're lacking in a lot more areas than just that
CarmenSanDiego · 36-40, F
@JaggedLittlePill: it's really sad such young women think this!
First, it's a total misconception that it's just the woman who are occasionally not in the mood. It goes both ways. People get busy, tired and kids and both parties stop making it a priority and both parties need to set time aside and keep the passion alive.
Also, guys don't cheat because you won't just "lay there" and let him do his thing. Wtf, most cheaters will cheat anyway and to think men are so basic and will totally fulfilled with you laying on your back is crazy. Men are as sensual as women and want to be wanted sexually as much as women.
I'd also like to add that I personnally have a very high sex drive and can and would have sex daily if I could. Most men, well no man, has ever wanted to sustain that over time and eventually fall into a twice a week schedule. It doesn't make me want to cheat.
Ghostrider · 51-55, M
Very well said.lol
You can't really be serious though.
Ghostrider · 51-55, M
Looking at my reply I agree I should have added lol to it. I'm sorry
CarmenSanDiego · 36-40, F
i sentence you to 20 Hail Marys ;)
Ghostrider · 51-55, M
At least you didn't spank me. lol
That seems to be the normal punishment here.....
Jonjdw · 46-50, M
I like you thinking but I'm a man. Still I would not like my daughter thinking this way.
CarmenSanDiego · 36-40, F
There is no difference between her and your daughter. If you don't want your daughter thinking this way you can't like what she's saying.
Jonjdw · 46-50, M
I don't. It's not right. And if my wife thought this way I would set her strait.
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ninjavu · 51-55, M
I've never seen anyone put that more succinctly than you just have. That's excellent. Thank-you.
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
You have it RIGHT...
I believe in POLYANDRY if your intentions are in the right place, but your performance is not up-to-par.. Keep your partner happy and sexually satisfied..
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SW-User
ahahahahahahahaha
KnightRanger · 56-60, M
Well said!!!

 
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