I Believe Females Need To Learn Their Place In Life And Submit

So here is how I was raised:

If you're in a monogamous relationship, you owe it to your partner to take care of their sexual needs. Whenever they need you to. It doesn't matter if you don't want to, it doesn't matter if you enjoy it. You decided your relationship is exclusive, it isn't fair to them to suddenly deny them sexual release, and the get mad when they seek it elsewhere. This applies to both men and women and same sex couples, but let's be honest: it mostly applies to hetero couples and women withholding sex like its a reward instead of a right.

Don't like it? Don't be monogamous. Plenty of other relationship styles out there.

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Strawberrymilk · F

its all about compromises really.. sometimes you just gotta let him do his thing and be over with it

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

No no you don't

Strawberrymilk · F

if you dont give him what he wants he is gonna get it from someone else

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

I think I have been around the block a few more times than you and I happen to be a submissive woman but that doesn't mean that I need to give it up just because he he says so. If he is getting it from someone else then you're lacking in a lot more areas than just that

CarmenSanDiego · 36-40, F

@JaggedLittlePill: it's really sad such young women think this!
First, it's a total misconception that it's just the woman who are occasionally not in the mood. It goes both ways. People get busy, tired and kids and both parties stop making it a priority and both parties need to set time aside and keep the passion alive.
Also, guys don't cheat because you won't just "lay there" and let him do his thing. Wtf, most cheaters will cheat anyway and to think men are so basic and will totally fulfilled with you laying on your back is crazy. Men are as sensual as women and want to be wanted sexually as much as women.
I'd also like to add that I personnally have a very high sex drive and can and would have sex daily if I could. Most men, well no man, has ever wanted to sustain that over time and eventually fall into a twice a week schedule. It doesn't make me want to cheat.