I Have An Ex Boyfriend Who Is Still In Love With Me
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I Have An Ex Boyfriend Who Is Still In Love With Me

My ex boyfriend decided to travel long way to see me as a surprise so he insists on saying . We got in touch after one year due to the corona virus as he said he was worried about me and thinking of me. Two weeks into chatting ( every other day) bam...he is here and in isolation (14 days by law) so far it's been 4 days, I haven't seen him. I don't want to see him as I know what's gonna happen. But he came a such long way.. I just know that when I see him especially now we will get back together but I am enjoying my freedom. What do I do? It's stressing me out😔 I don't have the heart to say turn back, go away, but I really wish he didn't come. I dont want to see him in person and of course he wants to live with me after his isolation...what do I do? What do I say to him? Or should I just see him and see how it goes .
Orlbe
26-30, F
152 replies 74 views Apr 4, 2020
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Quizzical · 46-50, M
Exes tend to be exes for good reason
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@Quizzical 😭😭😭😭😭
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Quizzical · 46-50, M
@Orlbe 🤗
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@Quizzical thank you🤗
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@Waymore 🤗
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@Waymore Thank you, you too :)
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SW-User
I know a few otaku they have pretty mediocre katana skills

And I can hide a body
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@SW-User The stroll..Then we chat better about things:)
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SW-User
the stroll. I’ll be by in half an hour@Orlbe
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@SW-User Ok :)
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ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
Don't let him decide you life for you. If he's the sort of guy who doesn't offer you a simple choice up front he's not the sort of person you want to be involved with. He knows what pressure you'll be under to comply with whatever he wants and you need to control your life not him. Give him a simple but firm NO and stick to it would be my advice. Good luck.
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@ThePerfectUsername Thank you. No he wasn't good for me. And I remember the pain he caused me..it took me months to get over him
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ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
@Orlbe Someone else said look to the future not the past.
It's good advice. 🤗
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
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SW-User
You can see him and see how it goes, but you seem to know where this is going to go. Sometimes you just have to be blunt, "it didn't work out between us before and I just don't see it working this time. Things haven't really changed and I am sorry, but I can't do this" or something like that could work
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@SW-User not see him in person or let him to come and live with me? I don't think I am strong enough to resist him while he is next to me day in and day out..I got feelings and needs too if you know what I mean 🤪 he is also good looking and Angel when he wants something
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SW-User
@Orlbe haha I know what you mean 😏 well hit it and quit it 🤭 idk lol
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@SW-User 😂🤣😂🤣😂
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SW-User
You should give him a chance.
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@SW-User and I appreciate that. Thank you. My heart is conflicted. One side feels excited and what can be, what would be..and I am lonely 🤪 saw his pics and he looks...hot is understatement 🙈 we just haven't touched the break up subject...I feel violated that he didn't let me know he was coming but when we talked before he came he asked me if I missed him and I said sometimes
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bijouxbroussard · F
@Orlbe I’ve been in this situation. Don’t ignore your own instincts about it. Someone just turning up and insisting upon staying could be less about love, more about [b]control[/b]. As someone else said, folks are exes for a [b]reason[/b]. If it were the right situation it’s unlikely you’d feel anxious and conflicted about his arrival. Loneliness can make one vulnerable, but don’t worry about [b]him[/b], you have to do what’s right for [b]you[/b]. Best wishes.
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@bijouxbroussard I hear you and receive what youre saying🤗 thank you
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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Sounds like maybe you shouldn't see him.
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@Fungirlmmm I really can't wait
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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@Orlbe Yes you can. Better to wait than end up dead from some unseen virus
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@Fungirlmmm Good point
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Firecat33 · 61-69, M
I think you have to put your foot down. Just say no! Just like you said. You enjoy your freedom, and you really wish he didn't come back. Tell him don't back down. 😲
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@Firecat33 I know I know...I will feel like a worst person
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Firecat33 · 61-69, M
@Orlbe you know what? ...you will be stronger and forget about it much easier.
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@Firecat33 I know that's what I should do😔
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Ladyryan · 51-55, F
You're enjoying your freedom now, don't discount that. Just say no. Its all worth it.
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@Ladyryan Yeah I've learned a lot on my own...
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Callmewhatyouwill
You're not forced to do anything you don't want to do.
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@Callmewhatyouwill I just have mixed feelings. It's keeping me awake at night
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Coppercoil · M
You must be quite the looker.
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@Coppercoil not the smartest tool in the shed that much I know lol.. ( looker) hahaha..well he think so anyway
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Bushmanoz · 56-60, M
do not give up your happiness for someone else, just because they traveled a long way, or for any other reason. He obviously knows you will feel guilty about this and is using it against you. You are too young to be stuck in a relationship like that, Dont see him
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Zonuss · 41-45, M
Tell him to fuck off and stop taking your kindness for weakness. That's what's going on. Don't fall for it ok. 🙂
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@Zonuss How I let go of the guilt. I dont regret the decision just hurts
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Zonuss · 41-45, M
@Orlbe Well ok. But still don't let that get you down. You just threw a snake outta the house. Count your blessings. 🙂
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Orlbe · 26-30, F
@Zonuss 🤗
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