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I Have An Ex Boyfriend Who Is Still In Love With Me

My ex boyfriend decided to travel long way to see me as a surprise so he insists on saying . We got in touch after one year due to the corona virus as he said he was worried about me and thinking of me. Two weeks into chatting ( every other day) bam...he is here and in isolation (14 days by law) so far it's been 4 days, I haven't seen him. I don't want to see him as I know what's gonna happen. But he came a such long way.. I just know that when I see him especially now we will get back together but I am enjoying my freedom. What do I do? It's stressing me out😔 I don't have the heart to say turn back, go away, but I really wish he didn't come. I dont want to see him in person and of course he wants to live with me after his isolation...what do I do? What do I say to him? Or should I just see him and see how it goes .
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ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
Don't let him decide you life for you. If he's the sort of guy who doesn't offer you a simple choice up front he's not the sort of person you want to be involved with. He knows what pressure you'll be under to comply with whatever he wants and you need to control your life not him. Give him a simple but firm NO and stick to it would be my advice. Good luck.
Orlbe · 26-30, F
@ThePerfectUsername I did. Just dealing with guilt now
ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
@Orlbe Good for you. 👍️
Don't waste time feeling guilty about it though, it's not appropriate. It was him who put you in an awkward situation and it's him who should feel bad about it. If he hadn't been so controlling you wouldn't have had to be so firm. You did well.
Orlbe · 26-30, F
@ThePerfectUsername Thank you. No he wasn't good for me. And I remember the pain he caused me..it took me months to get over him
ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M
@Orlbe Someone else said look to the future not the past.
It's good advice. 🤗
Orlbe · 26-30, F