I Have Something to Say Another friend (woman) was left SW because annoyed by guy 😕 This is wh...

Vivaci

True! No need to talk in PM's unless you've known them for over 6 months on posts. Or else keep it to a minimum hi-bye.

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

These have been my policies here and on EP for years. It's unfortunate, but it's necessary.

gmatthewb · 51-55, M

It is sad that a lot of guys on here make it hard for women to feel safe and enjoy themselves. As for your rules, some of the nice guys on here might not have 1000 views or 300 posts. Doesn't make them bad people by default I don't think. Would be better to judge them (if you must) by the posts they do have and comments they make. But always be careful to protect yourself until and if they can earn your trust.

Degbeme · 70-79, M

I truly hate when rude guys chase the good people away.

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

Not all men are that way.

SW-User

I've had my share of unsolicited inbox requests. Most times they are polite and/or harmless so I reply briefly to explain I'm not interested and usually that's the end of it. If they are crass or simply write "hi" they get ignored.

I've also had a few from women and have enjoyed that.

Only problem I ever had was from a woman (well, so she claimed - I doubt it) who then tried to scam me so I blocked her.

Helpinghands · M

There are most certainly exceptions. I’ve been here since the first day this site opened. I have zero posts. I have no idea (and no interest in knowing) how many views I have. I’m not interested in cheap romance or any kind of romance here. I’m not interested in seeing anyone’s boobs (or other body parts). I’m not interested in PMs.