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I Hate Asking For Help

I'm Stubborn... How many have experienced the moment when you realize that no you can't do this and you need help? I have, but usually after the fact.  Example, I fell off a scaffold back in the 90s.  As a result, I wrenched my shoulder.  I also did damage to an ankle, but didn't know that at first, because the shoulder hurt too much.  Now, Silly me I went to work the next day which working at a theater involved standing all day on concrete.  By the end of my shift, the ankle was swollen and throbbing.  Also, since I owned the only car in the family at that time, I then drove to the other side of the city to pick my mom up from work.  She figured out quickly that something was wrong, because instead of pacing around as I usually would have, I was sitting down on the floor.  I simply said that my foot was bothering me.  Of course she says to go get it checked out in the morning at Urgent Care.  I do and 24 hours later, I'm medicated & better.  Now, do you see the stubborn me.  I really hate to ask for help.  I'd rather limp in pain and drive with a swollen right ankle then simply say I can't handle it.  Of course it is male ego as well.  Don't cry, ask for help, look sad, etc.  Stupid, but it is hard to undo 40+ years of breeding. Sad but true.
Shedevil5924
I'm the same as you. I've been told that I'm the type of person that will brake their leg and not complain and just live with it. Hey,....if you can tolerate it then all is well. Am I wrong?????
PrairieDog71 · 51-55, M
No, I walked on a sprained ankle for 24 hrs before someone finally convinced me to go seek medical attention. :)
Shedevil5924
Cheers fellow stubborn person. Lol.

 
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