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I Don't Understand Women

Why do women think that just because a guy tries to talk to her that he wants a relationship with him? Really?
Me: hi how are you
Women: I have a boyfriend...
Me: uhhh.....
So, you're just trying to be friendly?
Imlostinthis · 31-35, M
No. It's like ethics when in situations with people from different backgrounds. It's a great class.
Was not on the curriculum when I was in college.
Imlostinthis · 31-35, M
My school sucks in some areas, but they offer classes that not many other schools do. I'm a leadership major and I'm taking as many classes that teach accepting others as possible. Not that I have a problem in that area or anything, but a leader who does not discriminate anyone for who they are or where they come from is a pretty rare gem in my experience.
Imlostinthis · 31-35, M
Right!? That's perfect!!
xSharp · 31-35, M
i thought that was how to explain online gaming to baby boomers?
lasergraph · 70-79, M
I was absent on those days. I think we had a field trip to some nature preserve.
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
[b]"I have a boyfriend"[/b] is the new [b]"I'm not interested."[/b]
Imlostinthis · 31-35, M
Makes sense. I wasn't calling you dumb or anything. I'm sorry if it came across that way.
LucyFuhr · 56-60, F
@Imlostinthis: You didn't come across that way at all.

My first answer might've come off as flippant too. I just wanted to make sure you knew I wasn't just smartassing LOL
Imlostinthis · 31-35, M
@LucyFuhr: okay cool. Nah you're good :) I like hearing different perspectives. We all have different perspectives on life. I'll never judge or hate anyone here because of what they say. I mean, I'm here not to just meet people, but to see how different people think. It's a sociological take of the psych in a way. If that makes sense.
Because being used to guys acting like that it's better to keep them all at arms length if you're not in the mood
Imlostinthis · 31-35, M
Why assume? What's the worst that can happen from saying "hi" back?
easier, the worst that could happen you could be trapped in a really awkward conversation with some creepy mofo. It's just not worth the risk.
Imlostinthis · 31-35, M
Haha very true.
OpenlyHonestly · 31-35, F
Maybe she wanted to imply that her bf would smash her head on the concrete if he caught her talking to you. (JK)
Anyway, why some men think that if you're nice to them it means you flirt with them or that you're interested in something more than a friendship?
Perhaps for the same reason.
Longlegs2014 · 61-69, M
Ummm, because she has been harassed so many times before you even think to utter "Hi". Shields up. Pasers on stun.
Imlostinthis · 31-35, M
The last thing I need before class is to be tazed. I need to be more careful!
Imlostinthis · 31-35, M
I think I need that. Hell, I think all guys need it. Probably even some women....
xSharp · 31-35, M
all men are rapists remember? get with the program! lol
Imlostinthis · 31-35, M
Haha STRANGER DANGER!!!
xSharp · 31-35, M
@Imlostinthis: jokes aside, getting the boyfriend answer is like 6 or 7 out of ten tries 2 more are usually fake numbers but on a good day one or two will end up being the real deal believe me i used to do it at the mall in highschool, it just like boomhauer used to teach on king of the hill.
Imlostinthis · 31-35, M
Very true man. Very true.
lasergraph · 70-79, M
If you start hearing it from guys too you may need to work on technique.
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
😄
Onegirl · F
It means she isn't interested in you or it could mean her BF would get jealous if she has guy friends

 
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